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Old 02-06-2016, 11:05 AM
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Hi, I have bipolar and my same sex partner has a serious problem with addiction to alcohol and cannabis. He can be violent when drunk, and is in total denial. I am very happy to have found a website I can relate to and look forward to having the courage to write here from time to time.

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Welcome, Aleximark, to SR; you'll find lots of support, understanding and encouragement here.
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Welcome to SR Aleximark, I hope your partner will come to his senses soon. In the meantime make sure you take care of yourself.

Incidentally you may be interested to know that there is a "Friends and Family" section on SR which might be worth you looking at
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Welcome to the Forum Mark!!

Very sorry to hear about what you're going through with your partner, it's important though to be safe, violence is never justified in any circumstance, if it's towards you.

You'll find loads of support here on SR!!
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Hi Mark,

I'm sorry for your situation with your partner. Violence is never okay and I hope you know you don't have to stay in a situation like that. I do hope your partner will stop drinking, but I also really hope that you protect yourself.
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Old 02-06-2016, 01:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Aleximark View Post
Hi, I have bipolar and my same sex partner has a serious problem with addiction to alcohol and cannabis. He can be violent when drunk, and is in total denial. I am very happy to have found a website. that I can relate to and look forward to writing here from time to time.

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Aleximark, does your partner want help at all? If he is in total denial, I believe the focus then turns back to you, what do you want?
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Hi and welcome Aleximark

I'm with those who said violence is never OK.

If your partner is resistant to change is this really the relationship you want for yourself?

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Old 02-06-2016, 02:34 PM
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Alex you had two identical threads, with replies, so I merged them

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I hope you will keep yourself safe.
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