I'm Soooo Angry,want Revenge!!!
OH SH!T
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I'm Soooo Angry,want Revenge!!!
WELL I'M JUST BACK FROM GOING TO PICK UP MY SISTER.
AT MIDNIGHT I GOT A CALL,MY SISTER HAD BEEN BEATEN BY HER BOYFRIEND.
SHE HAD BEEN CHOKED,PUNCHED IN THE FACE(NOT PRETTY),
BITTEN,HEAD SLAMMED OF A CONCRETE PORCH.
YES HE WAS DRUNK.I'M SITTING HERE SHAKING.
I WANT SO MUCH TO HURT HIM.
HE'S IN JAIL NOW,SHE HAS A COURT ORDER THAT HE CAN'T GO ANY WHERE NEAR HER.
SHE WILL BE STAYING WITH SUE AND I.
ALL I CAN THINK OF IS THAT HE HURT MY BABY SISTER BAD.
I WILL NOT LET THIS GO,SOMETHING MUST BE DONE.ted
AT MIDNIGHT I GOT A CALL,MY SISTER HAD BEEN BEATEN BY HER BOYFRIEND.
SHE HAD BEEN CHOKED,PUNCHED IN THE FACE(NOT PRETTY),
BITTEN,HEAD SLAMMED OF A CONCRETE PORCH.
YES HE WAS DRUNK.I'M SITTING HERE SHAKING.
I WANT SO MUCH TO HURT HIM.
HE'S IN JAIL NOW,SHE HAS A COURT ORDER THAT HE CAN'T GO ANY WHERE NEAR HER.
SHE WILL BE STAYING WITH SUE AND I.
ALL I CAN THINK OF IS THAT HE HURT MY BABY SISTER BAD.
I WILL NOT LET THIS GO,SOMETHING MUST BE DONE.ted
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Morning Ted
Try and take it easy mate - when loved ones are hurt it is mind bending. You've done the right thing helping your sis .... just make sure she is safe with you guys. The police will deal with b/f. Be strong buddy.
much love
JC
Try and take it easy mate - when loved ones are hurt it is mind bending. You've done the right thing helping your sis .... just make sure she is safe with you guys. The police will deal with b/f. Be strong buddy.
much love
JC
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It's not going to help your sister if you're in jail too. The something you can do is what you are doing. You can also get her into some domestic violence counseling so she doesn't repeat this.
I know how you feel, but your sister needs you at home right now and doesn't need the extra worry that you'll end up in jail too.
Hugs,
MG
I know how you feel, but your sister needs you at home right now and doesn't need the extra worry that you'll end up in jail too.
Hugs,
MG
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Hey Ted,
Just take a deep breath. Its a tough situation, but you have to keep your head on straight because your baby sister needs you supportive, not angry. Just encourage her to get counseling and stay away from this guy so that you dont have to see her like this again. Do something about the future, not the past. Stay strong. You can handle this.
Lindsey
Just take a deep breath. Its a tough situation, but you have to keep your head on straight because your baby sister needs you supportive, not angry. Just encourage her to get counseling and stay away from this guy so that you dont have to see her like this again. Do something about the future, not the past. Stay strong. You can handle this.
Lindsey
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((Ted)) My heart goes out to you and your sis. What everyone here has said is right! Say a prayer to your HP and ask what he wants you to do. I'm sure taking care of yourself, Sue, and your sis is top priority!! Remember, resentment, anger, and revenge are the #1 killers of alkies! ( or something like that) Hang in there buddy! I'm proud of you!
Love ya,
Missy
(and believe me, I'd like to kick that b/f's a$$ personally)
Love ya,
Missy
(and believe me, I'd like to kick that b/f's a$$ personally)
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Ted,
I'm so sorry for your sister and I think it's great that you guys are supporting here. That's what she needs right now. Just focus on her and let the rest of it go Ted. Getting revenge is not something you can allow yourself to think about. Put your energy into yourself, Sue and your sister.
Prayers are with you guys.
Love, Anna
I'm so sorry for your sister and I think it's great that you guys are supporting here. That's what she needs right now. Just focus on her and let the rest of it go Ted. Getting revenge is not something you can allow yourself to think about. Put your energy into yourself, Sue and your sister.
Prayers are with you guys.
Love, Anna
OH SH!T
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HEY ALL,THANKS,BEEN A LONG NIGHT.
YOUR ALL RIGHT,I'M JUST SO FRICKIN MAD.
HOW CAN SOMEBODY DO THAT TO SOMEONE THEY SUPPOSEDLY LOVE.?
HE'LL BE IN JAIL TILL MONDAY AT LEAST.
I JUST WANT TO DEFEND MY SISTER.
I WILL NOT MAKE THIS AN EXCUSE TO USE.
JUST REALLY UPTIGHT RIGHT NOW. :banghead: THANKS ted
YOUR ALL RIGHT,I'M JUST SO FRICKIN MAD.
HOW CAN SOMEBODY DO THAT TO SOMEONE THEY SUPPOSEDLY LOVE.?
HE'LL BE IN JAIL TILL MONDAY AT LEAST.
I JUST WANT TO DEFEND MY SISTER.
I WILL NOT MAKE THIS AN EXCUSE TO USE.
JUST REALLY UPTIGHT RIGHT NOW. :banghead: THANKS ted
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That's understandable Ted. We are just learning a new way to live. Too bad everyone isn't doing the same! Anyway, I've been reading this paragraph from the BB alot lately. It's from pg. 68
We trust infinite God rather than our finite selves. We are in the world to play the role He assigns. Just to the extent that we do as we think He would have us, and humbly rely on Him, does He enable us to match calamity with serenity.
Love,
Missy
We trust infinite God rather than our finite selves. We are in the world to play the role He assigns. Just to the extent that we do as we think He would have us, and humbly rely on Him, does He enable us to match calamity with serenity.
Love,
Missy
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Hey Ted
Let God and let Go. Ted thses words may seem weak right now
but think about for a few. Remember ted we cant change the
past, but we sure could change the future.
God Bless
Timebuster
Let God and let Go. Ted thses words may seem weak right now
but think about for a few. Remember ted we cant change the
past, but we sure could change the future.
God Bless
Timebuster
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(((((((TED,SIS,$SUE)))))))-
The best revenge is living well. Just help your sister so this never happens to her again. Everything we do comes back to us. I do not condone what your sisters b/f did but Ted he sounds like a sick sick man. Just make sure what he did is well documented so when he has his court date the Judge will see the severity of this attack. He needs help so he doesn't do this again to someone else.
If you beat him he will feel justified in doing it again to someone else and you could also end up in jail yourself and TED.... we don't want that!!! Prayers going out for you and your sister...
The best revenge is living well. Just help your sister so this never happens to her again. Everything we do comes back to us. I do not condone what your sisters b/f did but Ted he sounds like a sick sick man. Just make sure what he did is well documented so when he has his court date the Judge will see the severity of this attack. He needs help so he doesn't do this again to someone else.
If you beat him he will feel justified in doing it again to someone else and you could also end up in jail yourself and TED.... we don't want that!!! Prayers going out for you and your sister...
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(( Tedster ))
I dont think its a coincidence that you are sober right now and in a position to help your sis . I can only imagine how angry you must be , your sisters boyfriend sounds like a very sick man and its probably true that someone beat him somewhere along the line . I know for me its very important for me to keep the focus on my recovery , without that I am no good to anyone . I am pullin for you ans sendin prayers , keep the faith , Trish
OH SH!T
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THANKS,IT IS DOCUMENTED SPLEN,THE POLICE TOOK LOTS OF PICTURES
OF HER.SHE IS VERY SORE THIS A.M.
SHE CALLED HER WORK AND THEY UNDERSTAND,SHE GOT SOME TIME OFF TO HEAL.
YOUR RIGHT TRISH,I'M SOBER FOR A REASON!!!
LOVE YOU ALL......ted :cursebunn
OF HER.SHE IS VERY SORE THIS A.M.
SHE CALLED HER WORK AND THEY UNDERSTAND,SHE GOT SOME TIME OFF TO HEAL.
YOUR RIGHT TRISH,I'M SOBER FOR A REASON!!!
LOVE YOU ALL......ted :cursebunn
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Ted,
Your sis is a very lucky girl to have you!
I know its upsetting,but he will get his in the end!
Your sis needs you right now,so keep yourself AWAY from that guy!
Go to court with her if you can and hold her hand...it will make you both feel better!
She will need you there also.
Praying for you both!
Your sis is a very lucky girl to have you!
I know its upsetting,but he will get his in the end!
Your sis needs you right now,so keep yourself AWAY from that guy!
Go to court with her if you can and hold her hand...it will make you both feel better!
She will need you there also.
Praying for you both!
We all need each other.
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((((((((((Ted)))))))))))(((((((((((sis))))))))))(( ((((((((((Sue))))))))))))
Hang in there, buddy. I don't even know what to say. I know if I were in the same situation, I would want to do something too. I can see you are handling it better now.... My only suggestion is to pray your A$$ off. I agree with you and others that it is WONDERFUL that you are sober and ABLE to help your sister right now. That ba$tard will get what he deserves. He sounds like a VERY sick man.
You, Sue and your sister will be in my prayers.
Hugs--
Hang in there, buddy. I don't even know what to say. I know if I were in the same situation, I would want to do something too. I can see you are handling it better now.... My only suggestion is to pray your A$$ off. I agree with you and others that it is WONDERFUL that you are sober and ABLE to help your sister right now. That ba$tard will get what he deserves. He sounds like a VERY sick man.
You, Sue and your sister will be in my prayers.
Hugs--
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((((Ted))))
Just wanted to add my support here too. Glad you're there for your sister. I understand the desire for revenge, but as you know and have been told, it's not
the solution. Focus on getting your sister some help (long term) maybe get her
into a shelter if/when the need arises and keep an eye on her. Stay focused on the solution my friend and things will work out. God Bless.
Love Rowan
Just wanted to add my support here too. Glad you're there for your sister. I understand the desire for revenge, but as you know and have been told, it's not
the solution. Focus on getting your sister some help (long term) maybe get her
into a shelter if/when the need arises and keep an eye on her. Stay focused on the solution my friend and things will work out. God Bless.
Love Rowan
OH SH!T
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YOU GUYS ARE THE GREATEST.
I KNOW H/P WILL HELP US THROUGH THIS.
DAN YOUR SO RIGHT I'M HERE
IF I WAS OUT THERE I WOULDN'T BE HERE FOR MY SIS
IN HER TIME OF NEED.
JUST GOES TO SHOW WHAT THIS DISEASE IS CAPABLE OF.
EYE OPENER FOR ME,FOR SURE.
I LOVE YOU ALL,THANKS SO MUCH FOR BEING HERE...........ted
I KNOW H/P WILL HELP US THROUGH THIS.
DAN YOUR SO RIGHT I'M HERE
IF I WAS OUT THERE I WOULDN'T BE HERE FOR MY SIS
IN HER TIME OF NEED.
JUST GOES TO SHOW WHAT THIS DISEASE IS CAPABLE OF.
EYE OPENER FOR ME,FOR SURE.
I LOVE YOU ALL,THANKS SO MUCH FOR BEING HERE...........ted
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