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Old 01-28-2016, 04:24 PM
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Old 01-28-2016, 04:45 PM
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What's up melki? Hoping you're well.....

Calm weekend here - going to drive to the Pacific tomorrow down by the El Salvador/Guatemala border. Got a 'lil hotel for me and the lady friend, should be a serene weekend. Temps are blazing: 34c/93f today. I'll be hopping "ooh-oww-ooch" with my burned footsies to the water and back. Aside from that, it'll be pretty tranquilo. No plans, just Sun, Sand, and Sea Breezes.

One of my neighbors celebrated a birthday last night! But....only some of us neighbors were invited to the party. I was not one of them. That kinda thing used to bother me - but I'm pretty happy being on the outside of the party scene. If I'd had been invited, I would have found an excuse in the bag not to attend. But I wasn't asked. Guess my "I don't drink & party" is so well-rehearsed by now that everyone knows the drill.

Instead of a birthday party, I went to bed at a reasonable hour, listened to a podcast, and woke up to grind a brew some fresh coffee and enjoy the morning. I'll take that over a party invite any day.
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Big hugs to you Melki and sending you some positive thoughts and prayers

I'm having a super yuck day too and I always find comfort in knowing there are so many others here on SR to travel the recovery journey with when things are going well and when things not so much.
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Old 01-28-2016, 05:10 PM
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(((((Melki))))) and lots of prayers dear girl! Share if you'd like. If not, we totally get it. We're here either way.
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Hugs to you too ((((soberclover))))
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Old 01-28-2016, 05:24 PM
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I found out I'm pregnant several hours back and can't stop crying. I can't see peace down the line with either decision. I'm terrified.
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Big hugs, Melki!
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Boy, oh boy, does this topic hit home right now.

I've been on an emotional roller-coaster for days now. Work has had my insides all twisted up. Boss is on one of her infamous passive-aggressive rampages and it has left me bordering on being a wreck.

The good news? The days when this would have had me headed straight for the bottle are long behind me, thanks to sobriety and SR. And folks like all of you. I am grateful.

All my best wishes to the W'enders. We're in this together, gang.
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Old 01-28-2016, 05:28 PM
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Our posts crossed, Melki.

My sincere good wishes are with you. Hard choices ahead, ones that deserve respect and support from your friends here on SR.

Peace be with you.
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Old 01-28-2016, 05:29 PM
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Melki, you don't have to make any decision right now. You need to take time to absorb the news. Just take time to accept it and postpone making decisions about it. Breath.
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Old 01-28-2016, 06:07 PM
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Yes, breathe Melki dear. Give yourself time to absorb and process the news...nothing has to be decided right now. We will be here to support you however you need us to. Sending lots of hugs
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Melki, just try and breathe. As said by others nothing needs to be decided tonight, you have time. Sleep and we will try and help you process, if you need us too. Thinking of you
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Old 01-28-2016, 06:17 PM
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Yes, hugs melki. I don't have much advice but I agree with the others xx

It's very windy out. Storm Gertrude is hitting us hard tonight.

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Old 01-28-2016, 06:19 PM
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Thank you for the support.
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Old 01-28-2016, 06:36 PM
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(((Melki))) No advice from me, either. Just take some time to try to relax and think.
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Old 01-28-2016, 06:37 PM
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Why don't you try some bed time for yourself, melki?
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Old 01-28-2016, 07:07 PM
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Looking forward to my first sober weekend since 2014. Sick of the head throbbing, hungover or drunk weekends.
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Melki, hugs and prayers. Sounds like this is a shock for you. We're here.

Cahabr, welcome to weekenders. Stick around and post early and often. I was here nonstop when I stopped. It really helped to forge contacts.

Brain, what a rotten experience. I've heard that Microsoft will never call you if you're having issues-that those calls are a scam. I hope you get it resolved.

Everyone is in bed and early tonight. Shocking!
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Old 01-28-2016, 07:19 PM
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Originally Posted by bigsombrero View Post
No plans, just Sun, Sand, and Sea Breezes.
<--- Having big Big Sombrero envy at the moment.
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Old 01-28-2016, 07:27 PM
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Big hugs to you melki. That is big news.I hope that you can rest tonight.
Hugs to you too, soberwolf. ..some days are just rotten.
Cahabr...I hear you about being sick of being sick. Been there. Stick with us and start feeling better.
Ruby. ..I hope you are enjoying your peace and quiet.
I'm chilaxing tonight. I kinda like working til 7pm if I have my morning free. Gonna watch some tv or maybe read.
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