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Old 01-09-2016, 03:16 PM
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Tell me the woman is insane. She always brings food with her. She comes in and takes over my kitchen. Fine. I can live with that for one weekend a couple times a year. But now, I go to eat the soup I made, and she says "Try it, I made it better. It could've used some sugar and spices". This is nuts, no???
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Old 01-09-2016, 03:25 PM
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Well...I dunno. Was it better?
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Old 01-09-2016, 03:25 PM
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We just got home from a long bike ride/run. He biked, and I ran beside him.

My anxiety has been so bad that I don't even feel tired or winded. I feel energized, and slightly calmer. It feels like I could go for another long run!

Pretty cool, actually.

Maybe I should run each time my anxiety gets bad over the next couple of days. It seems to help.
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Old 01-09-2016, 03:27 PM
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Re. the money saving thing - I saw this thing online where week 1 of the new year, you put 1 euro in a jar, week 2, 2 euros and so on. I have started doing that so hopefully I can save a few quid.

One thing that has become clear is how bitter the rest of my mom's family have become over the will. There are 8 children altogether. One of them said he didn't need anything - he is a wealthy farmer/business owner - and he told Gran before she died that he has enough already.

When my Grandma was sick in hospital in May 2014 and subsequently discharged, she kept asking me to stay with her. This was something I never wanted to do, as she lived with three of my aunts - none of whom were easy to live with!
After I was offered a job at the local hospital, she was so proud of me, and invited me to stay, rent-free. I have always had dreams of visiting India, and after some discussion with my dad, I decided to accept her offer because, as my dad put it "if you can survive sharing with your aunts, you can survive anything, plus it will be good training for India!"
I re-told this story at the dinner party tonight, to a big laugh. Well, we all know how annoying extended family can be, don't we?
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Old 01-09-2016, 03:29 PM
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Originally Posted by biminiblue View Post
Well...I dunno. Was it better?
Who puts sugar in a soup?
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Old 01-09-2016, 03:30 PM
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What kind of soup was it?
I have seen some recipes with tinned tomatoes that call for a bit of sugar.
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Old 01-09-2016, 03:31 PM
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It was cream of mushroom but you two are clearly missing the point!
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Old 01-09-2016, 03:32 PM
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:-D Who puts sugar in a soup?
I put sugar in soups sometimes. Or grated carrots, which are really sweet.

I think moms and MILs want to pass along their knowledge. She definitely could have asked you before she doctored your soup, though.
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Re. the money saving thing - I saw this thing online where week 1 of the new year, you put 1 euro in a jar, week 2, 2 euros and so on. I have started doing that so hopefully I can save a few quid.
Interesting idea, Tetra. That would be around $1400. I calculated it just now.

I save 15% of each paycheck in a savings account.

I might combine these two savings methods.
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Old 01-09-2016, 03:37 PM
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This woman does not ask, she always knows better. She ignores every direct request, even if it relates to the kids, even if it's safety-related...
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Old 01-09-2016, 03:37 PM
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I put sugar into some soups too, but not yours!!!!
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Old 01-09-2016, 03:42 PM
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Melki, she sounds like Marie Barone:

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Old 01-09-2016, 03:42 PM
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melki, the women of Weekenders will be right over.

Us against her. We stand united, sister!

No. I hope you can find a way to not hurt her, though.
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Old 01-09-2016, 03:44 PM
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I know, melki, you do need to have a binge watch of "Everybody Loves Raymond." It's cathartic.
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Is this a mother-in-law, Melki? Good luck with that.

Mine is banned from my house, like forever.
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Old 01-09-2016, 03:49 PM
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Yes, it's MIL. Thank you sisters! I ran away. At the movie theater, Hateful Eight is about to start.
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Old 01-09-2016, 03:51 PM
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Awesome.
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Old 01-09-2016, 03:52 PM
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I immediately thought of Marie Barone too! Melki, you poor thing
Have fun at the movie and eat lots of popcorn and junior mints!
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Old 01-09-2016, 03:57 PM
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Marie Barone is a lovable saint, compared to this one.

OK, I am done being annoying and shutting off the phone. Thank you for being there for me.
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Let me know how hateful 8 is! I want to see it!
I'm leaving in about an hour to see the revenant
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