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Old 01-05-2016, 09:02 AM
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Urge to drink

When everybody gone I have the urge to drink and the urge is very strong I have 6days
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Old 01-05-2016, 09:05 AM
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Glad you posted instead of drinking. There are a million reasons not to, including starting back at day 1. Take a walk, read, get some coffee or ice cream. The craving will pass.
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Glad you posted instead of drinking. There are a million reasons not to, including starting back at day 1. Take a walk, read, get some coffee or ice cream. The craving will pass.
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Old 01-05-2016, 09:09 AM
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Well I wish mine had . Couldn't beat it today so far. Just got up with some issues and they had got the better of me
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Guess I will try to take a walk
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Old 01-05-2016, 09:16 AM
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Taking a walk is a great idea. Wanting to pick up a drink is just a thought....push through by distracting yourself and it will pass.

Great job on 6 days....it is a lot of progress!
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I defeated a bad craving recently by getting in my car and going on a long drive to nowhere in particular. When I got back home about 3 hours later, the craving had passed.
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MBrown,

Taking a walk is a great idea. Wanting to pick up a drink is just a thought....push through by distracting yourself and it will pass.

Great job on 6 days....it is a lot of progress!
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I defeated a bad craving recently by getting in my car and going on a long drive to nowhere in particular. When I got back home about 3 hours later, the craving had passed.
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Don't give in to the urge. Feelings don't have to become actions. Distract yourself til the urge passes. It will get better.
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Old 01-05-2016, 09:25 AM
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Taking a walk is a great idea, and so is having something to eat. These feelings will come along at times and it's good to be prepared. I'm glad you got through this.
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Day 6 is fantastic!! Keep pushing through!!

For me when I felt like drinking, doing something different, an activity, a walk in the fresh air, something to pass the time, as feelings do pass!!
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Old 01-05-2016, 12:14 PM
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early on i had days the mental obsession drove me (more) bonkers and i had to fight to not drink.

well worth the fight.

i think many here will agree 6 days is an eternity. good on ya!
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Old 01-05-2016, 12:45 PM
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At the start these feeling come quite often, and I always felt that they might just sweep me away. The good news is that, although they feel awful, they don't actually do any harm at all. The longer since your last drink, the bigger the gap between these cravings will be. Keep starving the beast!

Keep an eye on the HALT (Hunger; Anger; Lonely; Tired) triggers, and avoid them wherever possible.

Be gentle with yourself. You're doing great - this part will soon pass.
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Old 01-05-2016, 12:48 PM
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Six days is great! Well done. Keep it going, it will get easier.
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Old 01-05-2016, 01:09 PM
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Good Job!

6 days is great! I don't feel I can give any advice as I am only 72 days today! But it does get a little easier and then harder and then easier again. At least for me. I want to drink some part of everyday pretty much but I know I would feel like total sh*! if I did and be SO disappointed in myself , so I get busy with something else and then before I know it the day is gone. Alcohol was my very best friend and I drank alone a lot, so I miss it, I grieve it. Maybe that is what you're feeling, the loss of this companion. You should be proud, stay strong!
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Congrads on day 6, as said before the urges at the start are pretty strong at times, a walk works for me and look forward to day 7, this journey is not an easy one at times.
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try this

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-cravings.html

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...e-surfing.html
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Old 01-05-2016, 09:05 PM
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Soberwolf, I love those links, especially Carol D's tips. It took me a long time to realize the "need" to drink is craving that will in fact pass, because for so many years I just drank everytime I felt like it. I never knew what it was like to ride the wave. Of course it is tough and my best description for the anxiety is wanting to rip my own skin off, but it DOES PASS!
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I hope the walk helped mbrown?

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