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Old 01-24-2016, 04:04 AM
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Thank you D this is excellent in plan building
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Old 01-24-2016, 10:12 AM
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I needed this!

I'm doing really good right now, and that means it's still a good time to plan for hard times.

Thanks Dee!
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Old 02-07-2016, 01:36 PM
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Great reminder to keep my plan in mind
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Old 02-13-2016, 11:29 AM
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I thought this thread would be a "Sticky", but I don't see it anywhere. Maybe the foggy brain is making me overlooking it.

I can't store it in my browser because anyone who would borrow my pc would be able to see it.

Am I overlooking something or should this one be made Sticky?
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Old 02-13-2016, 12:47 PM
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You could print it out to keep safe somewhere mike ?
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Old 02-13-2016, 01:09 PM
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You could print it out to keep safe somewhere mike ?
Believe it or not, I don't own a printer.

But I just realized that I can find it back through my profile where it shows my forum activity.

Still though, I think it would be great to have as a Sticky post. It's so useful and that way new users come across it much easier.
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Old 02-13-2016, 01:43 PM
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Better yet I'm going to pm you it right now and you can save it in your msgs
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Old 02-13-2016, 03:38 PM
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Originally Posted by MikeM View Post
I thought this thread would be a "Sticky", but I don't see it anywhere. Maybe the foggy brain is making me overlooking it.

I can't store it in my browser because anyone who would borrow my pc would be able to see it.

Am I overlooking something or should this one be made Sticky?
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Old 02-13-2016, 03:52 PM
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The links themselves are actually part of a sticky:

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...at-we-did.html

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Old 02-16-2016, 07:06 PM
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Psst...wanna know why I'm always recommending recovery plans?

Because Dee is awesome!!
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Old 03-06-2016, 03:05 PM
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I got so much help from my addiction counselor. I saw her weekly for about five years. She helped me with staying sober and all other aspects of my life.

And she herself was once addicted to a substance, so she understands totally.

A good counselor is worth his or her weight in gold.
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Old 03-06-2016, 03:33 PM
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I hate a cliche', but having no plan is planning to fail.

For me, what was equally important was the fact that I had no idea how to make a plan for myself that would actually work. I had to ask people who had been where I was and had found a way out (and gotten where I wanted to go) how to do that. The fact that their guidance didn't always make sense to me was irrelevant. I arrived at the door of recovery long on theory but short on experience. I'm glad I was beaten enough to listen.
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Old 03-06-2016, 03:43 PM
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Don't go down with the ship

Originally Posted by Dee74 View Post

If you haven't given much thought to what you might do in response, there's always the danger you'll revert to the default - which, for people like us, is drink.

Make a plan
A good point that goes unnoticed at times until it's too late.
Once with almost three years without a drink
I got to feeling uptight at a wedding reception
grabbed two beers before I even gave it much thought.

Today I would simply slip outside for some fresh air.
Today I will walk out of any slippery situation -- and fast.

Yes, very important -- A good complete Sober Tool Belt.

Why go down with the ship if I (we) can swim away sober?

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Old 03-18-2016, 04:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Dee74 View Post
Cos otherwise, sometime sooner or later, you're going to be blindsided by an event, a person, a feeling, a situation or a stressor...and the urge to drink will be there.

If you haven't given much thought to what you might do in response, there's always the danger you'll revert to the default - which, for people like us, is drink.

Make a plan

It may take a little time and some deep thought, but it's really not that difficult

Here are some helpful links and ideas

https://store.samhsa.gov/shin/conten...0/SMA-3720.pdf

https://store.samhsa.gov/shin/conten...SMA12-4474.pdf

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-recovery.html

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-cravings.html

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Thank you. I downloaded the first two and read the last two
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Old 04-05-2016, 07:20 PM
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Thanks these links are so helpful. This is a battle I'm fighting on my own and it's not easy.
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Old 04-06-2016, 02:08 AM
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Hi Tootla, if you're able, you could get along to an AA meeting in an hour:

8 pm, St Mary's Hall, 155 Nobbs St, Rockhampton [near corner of Nobbs and Burnett St, part of St Mary's school complex].

It may not be your thing, but worth a try. People won't mind one jot if you've been drinking, all you have to do is get there, tell someone you're new and sit down and listen. Best wishes. There's another Rocky meeting on Saturday: just search on aa.org.au --->Find a Meeting link for Rockhampton.
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Old 04-15-2016, 11:20 AM
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Clueless and on my own, I stumbled upon this:

It was a good start and the basics stuck. Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction is basically my plan now.
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Old 04-28-2016, 06:16 PM
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I always think I have a concrete plan but I guess I still just don't get it?
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Old 04-28-2016, 06:56 PM
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I think there's two parts to a plan Winslow - making one - and putting it in action?

What's your plan for when you feel the urge to drink?

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Old 04-29-2016, 01:52 PM
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Dee,I don't know, I get extremely anxious before a drink,I just don't know how to keep from climbing the walls
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