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Old 01-01-2016, 02:28 PM
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In order to succeed...

...we must first believe that we can.

I finally did it. I emailed my parents and husband last night stating my goal of sobriety. I also asked them to support me going to rehab if one month from now I'm still struggling. I didn't go crazy last night, just a few glasses of wine and no one mentioned the email this morning, but I know they're with me. Tomorrow will be day one as my last drink was just after midnight last night. 2016 will be a good year.
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Old 01-01-2016, 02:30 PM
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You can do this! Accountability is a huge step. Your email was that first step. Stick around and let's do this together!!
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Old 01-01-2016, 02:33 PM
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You won't regret it. It's an illusion and a trickster the grog. Congratulations you're on your way. Don't look back.
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Make this your Sober Year.
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Old 01-01-2016, 02:37 PM
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Old 01-01-2016, 02:38 PM
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It's been a long time coming. Just feels odd to have it out in the open. I'm excited, scared, optimistic, pessimistic, and flat out lost all at the same time. Lol I have no other options. This has to happen. Period. The end.
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Old 01-01-2016, 03:03 PM
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Old 01-01-2016, 03:03 PM
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Hit the nail on the head.
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Old 01-01-2016, 03:11 PM
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Best wishes pinot. I believe you can make this a real turning point

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Old 01-01-2016, 05:26 PM
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Congratulations Pinot. I can still remember the two big experiences of my Day 1: being completely honest with my doctor about my drinking and then calling my mother to tell her I had a problem and that problem was drinking. It's still relatively early days for me but those two things were huge - I had opened a door and stepped through it by being honest with the people who could help me most. Your courage and honesty in opening up to your loved ones will make a difference I am sure.
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Old 01-01-2016, 05:31 PM
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Congratulations- you made some good choices.
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Old 01-01-2016, 05:36 PM
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Congratulations, I wish you the very best in your journey, we are all pulling for you
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Old 01-01-2016, 05:41 PM
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I had to hit my head pretty hard to becoming willing to get sober - sounds like you are a candidate!

Glad you're with us here - declarations are great, the daily action of staying sober is indisputable visual evidence!
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Old 01-01-2016, 07:18 PM
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Do whatever you have to do to make it happen, it will be worth every minute, every second!
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Old 01-01-2016, 07:42 PM
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Yeah Pinot!! To New begginings
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Old 01-01-2016, 07:46 PM
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Congrats Pinot. What is your plan for tomorrow? Stick around SR...it helped me tremendously in the early says and still does today.
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Old 01-01-2016, 07:54 PM
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So proud of you. My journey changed completely the moment I told my family. I commend you on your courage. I hope, like me, that you never regret it.

Wishing you hope & light.
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Old 01-01-2016, 08:11 PM
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You got this Pinot!! Don't think about what you are giving up, but rather what you are gaining by getting sober.
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Old 01-02-2016, 07:59 AM
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Thank you all! Officially day one and feeling so out of sorts. I know it will get better, I just hope it gets better fast! I'm ready to get home so I can focus on me a little while. Vacations are exhausting... especially when drinking. Uggg. Just popped open a ginger ale and hoping to eat at some point. If this cloud in my head would just lift I would feel so much better. Just need to give it time I suppose.
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Old 01-02-2016, 08:02 AM
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Good job on making a day 1
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