4 Weeks!!!
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4 Weeks!!!
Hello all,
Yesterday was 4 weeks for me. This is a huge accomplishment for me b/c that is the longest dry period I've had in over 7 years. The longest before this was about a week.
I'm doing better, but like everyone else I still have my good days and my bad days. The anxiety is still there in full force and somedays it's worse than others. I just have to keep pushing through and tell myself that it will not last forever. This has been very trying time for me and my family.
I would really like to say that I'm the luckiest guy on earth. My wife has been by my side no matter what through this. I've not been the best husband to her and have made my mistakes w/ the bottle. She has stuck it out with me b/c she says that she knows what person is under that fake skin I like to wear when I'm drinking. I love her and I'm blessed that she is in my life.
One thing that has been a big difference for me that I never noticed. I never spent enough time w/ my kids. Don't get me wrong I was there physically, but mentally I was checked out and was not involved the way a father is supposed to be. Lately I have been able to watch movies with them, play games, go outside, and last night I even took them Christmas shopping for their mom! That was an awesome time!!!!!
Overall I know this is a slow process and I still have a long way to go. Thank you all here that has been supportive and encouraging. I really appreciate this group and all everyone does for each other here!
Thank you,
Scottie
Yesterday was 4 weeks for me. This is a huge accomplishment for me b/c that is the longest dry period I've had in over 7 years. The longest before this was about a week.
I'm doing better, but like everyone else I still have my good days and my bad days. The anxiety is still there in full force and somedays it's worse than others. I just have to keep pushing through and tell myself that it will not last forever. This has been very trying time for me and my family.
I would really like to say that I'm the luckiest guy on earth. My wife has been by my side no matter what through this. I've not been the best husband to her and have made my mistakes w/ the bottle. She has stuck it out with me b/c she says that she knows what person is under that fake skin I like to wear when I'm drinking. I love her and I'm blessed that she is in my life.
One thing that has been a big difference for me that I never noticed. I never spent enough time w/ my kids. Don't get me wrong I was there physically, but mentally I was checked out and was not involved the way a father is supposed to be. Lately I have been able to watch movies with them, play games, go outside, and last night I even took them Christmas shopping for their mom! That was an awesome time!!!!!
Overall I know this is a slow process and I still have a long way to go. Thank you all here that has been supportive and encouraging. I really appreciate this group and all everyone does for each other here!
Thank you,
Scottie
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Fantastic news, Scottie. Really pleased for you.
And I know exactly what you mean about the difference between being around the kids, and actually being there with them. That's been the best thing about being sober for me. I always thought I was there for them. Now I really am.
And I know exactly what you mean about the difference between being around the kids, and actually being there with them. That's been the best thing about being sober for me. I always thought I was there for them. Now I really am.
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4 weeks is fantastic, Scottie. Stay focused. Be ready for that unexpected urge to drink. It will strike suddenly and with a vengeance. Think about how you will deal with it when it comes.
You are doing great. Congratulations. Keep posting. Keep doing what you are doing.
You are doing great. Congratulations. Keep posting. Keep doing what you are doing.
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Hello all,
Just wanted to check in. I haven't posted since Christmas. Well I'm still on the wagon and today is 7 weeks! That is a major accomplishment for me. It has not been w/o it's ups and downs though. I've been in the hospital once due to bad panic attacks. Anxiety is a daily issue that I have to deal with. I am trying to get to the bottom of it though by working w/ counselors and substance abuse material.
Thank you all for being here. I do check in everyday and read everyone's post. I hope all out there are doing good and keep the faith and keep working.
Thank you,
Scottie
Just wanted to check in. I haven't posted since Christmas. Well I'm still on the wagon and today is 7 weeks! That is a major accomplishment for me. It has not been w/o it's ups and downs though. I've been in the hospital once due to bad panic attacks. Anxiety is a daily issue that I have to deal with. I am trying to get to the bottom of it though by working w/ counselors and substance abuse material.
Thank you all for being here. I do check in everyday and read everyone's post. I hope all out there are doing good and keep the faith and keep working.
Thank you,
Scottie
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Don't let it go now that you have a good taste
Originally Posted by sc0ot3r1982 
Yesterday was 4 weeks for me. This is a huge accomplishment for me b/c that is the longest dry period I've had in over 7 years.
For us drunks -- the sober life is the best life.
Stick with us now -- ok.
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Originally Posted by sc0ot3r1982
Hello all,
Yesterday was 4 weeks for me. This is a huge accomplishment for me b/c that is the longest dry period I've had in over 7 years. The longest before this was about a week.
I'm doing better, but like everyone else I still have my good days and my bad days. The anxiety is still there in full force and somedays it's worse than others. I just have to keep pushing through and tell myself that it will not last forever. This has been very trying time for me and my family.
I would really like to say that I'm the luckiest guy on earth. My wife has been by my side no matter what through this. I've not been the best husband to her and have made my mistakes w/ the bottle. She has stuck it out with me b/c she says that she knows what person is under that fake skin I like to wear when I'm drinking. I love her and I'm blessed that she is in my life.
One thing that has been a big difference for me that I never noticed. I never spent enough time w/ my kids. Don't get me wrong I was there physically, but mentally I was checked out and was not involved the way a father is supposed to be. Lately I have been able to watch movies with them, play games, go outside, and last night I even took them Christmas shopping for their mom! That was an awesome time!!!!!
Overall I know this is a slow process and I still have a long way to go. Thank you all here that has been supportive and encouraging. I really appreciate this group and all everyone does for each other here!
Thank you,
Scottie
Yesterday was 4 weeks for me. This is a huge accomplishment for me b/c that is the longest dry period I've had in over 7 years. The longest before this was about a week.
I'm doing better, but like everyone else I still have my good days and my bad days. The anxiety is still there in full force and somedays it's worse than others. I just have to keep pushing through and tell myself that it will not last forever. This has been very trying time for me and my family.
I would really like to say that I'm the luckiest guy on earth. My wife has been by my side no matter what through this. I've not been the best husband to her and have made my mistakes w/ the bottle. She has stuck it out with me b/c she says that she knows what person is under that fake skin I like to wear when I'm drinking. I love her and I'm blessed that she is in my life.
One thing that has been a big difference for me that I never noticed. I never spent enough time w/ my kids. Don't get me wrong I was there physically, but mentally I was checked out and was not involved the way a father is supposed to be. Lately I have been able to watch movies with them, play games, go outside, and last night I even took them Christmas shopping for their mom! That was an awesome time!!!!!
Overall I know this is a slow process and I still have a long way to go. Thank you all here that has been supportive and encouraging. I really appreciate this group and all everyone does for each other here!
Thank you,
Scottie
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Well done on seven weeks Scottie.
You mention panic attacks. They are quite difficult to define so I expect it's hard for hospitals and doctors to treat them. I would say that spending time with sober people in AA meetings, most of them say their anxiety level decreases with sober time and especially when they fill their lives with fulfilling activities and relationships. So doing stuff with the kids sounds like a good idea.
What else are you doing as part of your plan to stay sober?
You mention panic attacks. They are quite difficult to define so I expect it's hard for hospitals and doctors to treat them. I would say that spending time with sober people in AA meetings, most of them say their anxiety level decreases with sober time and especially when they fill their lives with fulfilling activities and relationships. So doing stuff with the kids sounds like a good idea.
What else are you doing as part of your plan to stay sober?
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