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peanut44 11-09-2015 03:13 PM

My step father passed away last night
 
That pretty much says it all.

We are going out of town to stay with my mom for a couple days tomorrow. I'm pretty nervous about that. Haven't seen her in 8 years.

This sucks. Hit me a little harder than i thought it would. He's been my dad basically, since i was 11. I've been in a fog like state and am very withdrawn. I can't help it. It's like i just want to be left alone.

With the stuff that has happened with my husband and now this, it's pretty overwhelming.

Anna 11-09-2015 03:24 PM

Oh Peanut, I'm so sorry. I'm sure you are feeling all kinds of emotions right now. Are you going to be okay going to see your mother after 8 years?

Dee74 11-09-2015 03:24 PM

I'm sorry for your loss Peanut.

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least 11-09-2015 03:26 PM

I am sorry for your loss. :hug:

badger257 11-09-2015 03:27 PM

I'm sorry for your loss...

PurpleKnight 11-09-2015 03:28 PM

Very sorry for your loss Peanut!! :hug:

peanut44 11-09-2015 03:28 PM

Anna, I'm going to have to be. She is hurting and alone so me and my husband will go over in the morning and stay for 2 nights max.

She really wants to see me. It just seems like one thing after the next lately. A lot of stress at work too.

emme99 11-09-2015 03:30 PM

So sorry for your loss Peanut.

Venecia 11-09-2015 03:36 PM

I am so sorry for your loss, Peanut.

soberclover 11-09-2015 03:37 PM

I'm sorry Peanut; I'll be thinking of you and sending you positive thoughts.

Hevyn 11-09-2015 03:38 PM

Prayers for you and your family to be comforted, Peanut. :hug:

yinzer 11-09-2015 05:49 PM

I'm very sorry, Peanut. Hugs to you.

happyandfree 11-09-2015 05:54 PM

So sorry for your loss, Peanut. I would make sure that the visit is short and sweet. You can always go again when you are feeling stronger.

learntofly 11-09-2015 05:58 PM

I'm sorry Peanut. =( Praying for you and your family!

SoberLeigh 11-09-2015 06:17 PM

I am so sorry, peanut.

Sending good thoughts your way. We are here if you need us.

Safe travels.

LemonGirl 11-09-2015 06:25 PM

So sorry to hear...

Give yourself time. Its been over two years since my step dad passed and I have just finally gone through the anger stage. (((Hugs)))

sleepie 11-09-2015 06:32 PM

peanut :hug: I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

HeartsAfire 11-09-2015 06:37 PM

Sending you love, peace, strength & light.

growpath 11-09-2015 06:41 PM

I'm sorry peanut. Huge comforting hug.

melki 11-09-2015 06:42 PM

Take care of yourself, peanut. :hug: Deep breaths and retreat whenever you need to.


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