I am a failure
I am a failure
I did so well. my partner was off with me and I felt like I could rule the world... I had 6 days.. 6 DAYS!. . We went out of town for vacation and ...It was all you can eat and drink wine and I felt like I needed to either explain or drink. After that, it was just, well you might as well drink...
I am so tired of wanting to drink... I need to figure out how to remove people from my life or I am F***ed
I am so tired of wanting to drink... I need to figure out how to remove people from my life or I am F***ed
Do you know me?
I was the one that stopped by after work and bought a fifth of Absolut
Do you know me?
I was the one that had a couple of shots and thought everything was a joke.
Do you know me?
Do you know me?
I was the one that stopped by after work and bought a fifth of Absolut
Do you know me?
I was the one that had a couple of shots and thought everything was a joke.
Do you know me?
Do you know me?
Yes Lizzy your my friend I believe here is some links its ok Rome wasn't built in a day it took time
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ful-links.html
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ful-links.html
It's better to explain than to drink. If you drink you're going to have to explain eventually. Perhaps the only people you might consider "removing from your life" are those who, if you explain, do not understand. A true friend understands if you admit you are ill (and alcoholism is an illness, not a sin) and helps and supports you in recovering from that illness. And it's better to avoid places which put you at risk, like "all you want to eat and drink". And you're not a failure. You're learning to recover. It's not something you learn over night. Sobriety is a journey and sometimes there are bumps in the road. Let us help you over those bumps. We are here 24/7. We know you can do it. Every good wish.
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Lizzie, I could have never gotten through an all you can eat/drink vacation with 6 days of sobriety either. You've learned what works and what doesn't, so now you can make a plan that will keep you on track.
I don't think you're a failure either Lizzie.
I went back to drinking a lot of times too - I seriously underestimated how much my life revolved around alcohol.
You don't need to tell anyone else if you don't want to, but you do need to be prepared for situations where booze will be on offer and it's your responsibility to say no.
are you working to some kind of a plan at all?
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I went back to drinking a lot of times too - I seriously underestimated how much my life revolved around alcohol.
You don't need to tell anyone else if you don't want to, but you do need to be prepared for situations where booze will be on offer and it's your responsibility to say no.
are you working to some kind of a plan at all?
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I mean a strategy for staying sober, avoiding pitfalls, finding support etc
This link explains it all pretty clearly Lizzie
https://store.samhsa.gov/shin/conten...0/SMA-3720.pdf
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This link explains it all pretty clearly Lizzie
https://store.samhsa.gov/shin/conten...0/SMA-3720.pdf
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Here's some other useful links to look over aswell Lizzy
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ful-links.html
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ful-links.html
Use the fear of relapsing in your recovery. I'm at 80-something days now, and when I get a craving, one of the many thoughts I use to fight it is "I don't want to start from Day 1 again."
Works for me. You're not a failure. We've all relapsed on our journeys.
Works for me. You're not a failure. We've all relapsed on our journeys.
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