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Old 09-04-2015, 01:03 PM
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Red face Never too old to learn?

I am in my 50s and thought I had a handle on everything. I knew in the past that I periodically had "a drinking problem". I refused to call myself an alcoholic though. I could control it if I wanted to, and did sometimes. I also have had lifelong issues with depression. I knew a while back that alcohol did not help depression, but worsens it. I'll reveal my drinking patterns at another time. Right now I just want to admit that I am an alcoholic. I really do think it is poison to me. In the last year I have drank 4 times to get drunk, 2-3 months apart. Other times I can drink a beer or 2 and not think about it for a long time. Once again I am promising myself it will never happen again.

Sorry if this is long and boring. lol
I just needed somewhere to unburden my mind and have no one to talk. Thank you for reading.
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Old 09-04-2015, 01:05 PM
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Welcome to SR yellowyellow, your post is definitely not long or boring, we understand how it is and good for you for getting it out there/off your chest. Hope you can stick around and share/learn some more with us.
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Welcome to SR Yellow. Stick around, trust me, you'll enjoy it here. Great people around these parts.
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It really doesn't matter what you label yourself, if alcohol causes problems in your life, then quit

The only time I ever identify myself is at an AA meeting before I speak, you know, "hi, I'm and X and I'm an alcoholic . . . "
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Welcome, YellowYellow. I hope you'll find as much help here as I do. It sounds like you are starting from a realistic point of view.
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Welcome to SR Yellowyellow. You've found a great community with a ton of support.

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Old 09-04-2015, 03:56 PM
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Welcome friend. I stopped drinking when I was 58. After years of trying to quit and moderate my intake it was better to just stop altogether. Only then did I slowly become aware of other issues I had, that I had been self-medicating for decades. It was really worth the effort to do this.
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Welcome YellowYellow

I don't think it's ever too late to start writing a different happier chapter 2 to your story

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Old 09-04-2015, 04:01 PM
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Welcome to SR YellowYellow I got sober at 58, I'm 60 now and so glad to feel like a thirty-something again. You can do this.
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Old 09-05-2015, 01:38 AM
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Old 09-05-2015, 05:33 AM
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It's never too late to quit. I stopped at 49. I'll be 51 soon enough. One of the best things I've done for myself.

I needed support though. Here and in real life, so I attend AA meetings too.

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Welcome yellowyellow, your story is a familiar one. The people here are wonderful and you will find no judgement here, just support. Nice to meet you.
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Old 09-05-2015, 08:05 AM
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Thank you all for the warm welcome. I am so glad I found this board. Hugs to all.
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