Need help & I am afraid I am too far gone
Glad to hear things are looking a bit brighter for you. As we all said, you did really well to get to 67 days and it wasn't surprising that you felt disappointed when you relapsed after that. We've all had similar experiences.
Thanks for sharing about the therapy, too. I expect the therapist started talking about other issues when you explained that you were sobering up. And indeed, her suggestion of handing that part of your recovery over to AA sounds like a good idea because it's got lots of experience in that area.
Therapists don't always get AA, though - especially the spiritual side of it, so sometimes it can be a bit of a balancing act. I wouldn't worry though - both can be helpful.
Please keep posting - we're pleased to hear what's going on for you and we'll support you where we can.
Thanks for sharing about the therapy, too. I expect the therapist started talking about other issues when you explained that you were sobering up. And indeed, her suggestion of handing that part of your recovery over to AA sounds like a good idea because it's got lots of experience in that area.
Therapists don't always get AA, though - especially the spiritual side of it, so sometimes it can be a bit of a balancing act. I wouldn't worry though - both can be helpful.
Please keep posting - we're pleased to hear what's going on for you and we'll support you where we can.
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Dee - thanks for asking, I am doing fine, much better than last night.
Things do tend to look dark when I have been drinking and I need to consider that when the thought of drinking comes to mind. You are also right in that I need to put a plan together and I have been thinking about that and will get one put together. I saved the link you are always posting and will use that . Thank you for checking in
Things do tend to look dark when I have been drinking and I need to consider that when the thought of drinking comes to mind. You are also right in that I need to put a plan together and I have been thinking about that and will get one put together. I saved the link you are always posting and will use that . Thank you for checking in
Making a plan
Hi Emme:
I'm still very new to sobriety but I thought I would share with you what I did for my plan in hopes that it will help.
I made a memo on my phone with a list of what drinking does to me - things like:
I also changed activities in my life. One activity that I think was pivotal in my success was joining the community theatre group. Having to memorize lines and then perform on stage helped me not only with my memory but also knowing that a whole lot of other people were counting on me to do my job. It wasn't just "about me" it was about the entire group and we were a team.
And lastly, which is probably the key to success is that I want to be sober more than anything.
I wish you much success Emme.
CF
I'm still very new to sobriety but I thought I would share with you what I did for my plan in hopes that it will help.
I made a memo on my phone with a list of what drinking does to me - things like:
- red face
- bloat/weight
- bad skin
- high blood pressure
- saying/texting stupid things
- epic hangovers
- memory loss
- anxiety/depression
I also changed activities in my life. One activity that I think was pivotal in my success was joining the community theatre group. Having to memorize lines and then perform on stage helped me not only with my memory but also knowing that a whole lot of other people were counting on me to do my job. It wasn't just "about me" it was about the entire group and we were a team.
And lastly, which is probably the key to success is that I want to be sober more than anything.
I wish you much success Emme.
CF
Been there. The anxiety was so bad I thought I was going crazy. I also felt like I couldn't stop. I was beginning to resign myself to the fact that I would probably die from cirrhosis. You have to do something different this time to stay sober, whatever that may be. For me it was going back to AA and getting a sponsor. Don't know how you feel about AA. Otherwise as you probably know there are lots of other options out there. Nothing changes if nothing changes.
Hi Emme, there's always hope. I did inpatient treatment and it really helped derail my drinking. Placing myself in someone else's hands knowing I'd be physically cared for, was such a relief. If it's an option, I'd highly recommend it. Then I hit AA meetings and started reaching out to others.
Be well. You have too much to offer to give up.
Be well. You have too much to offer to give up.
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