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pretty sure my gf is cheating on me with someone she met in AA..its not fair that i put up with all the crap of drunkeness only to be crapped on in her sobriety and actually im not guessing i know.. ive read the texts.
I am sorry Goodman. that truly stinks, I agree.
I Hope that you can find your way past the pain of it, and give yourself a good life, with someone you can trust. You can't change a person, and they don't usually change their character.
hang in there... we have been there too.
chicory
I Hope that you can find your way past the pain of it, and give yourself a good life, with someone you can trust. You can't change a person, and they don't usually change their character.
hang in there... we have been there too.
chicory
Man... this is terrible.
I suggest you to read or post in the Friends and Family of Alcoholics Forum. They may have a solution for this.
I suggest you to read or post in the Friends and Family of Alcoholics Forum. They may have a solution for this.
Glad to meet ya,goodman. I wasn't feeling very good when I discovered, quite some time ago, a woman who said she loved me deeply, in bed with a friend of mine. I removed em both from my life.
Yup, it hurt, but I got through it.
One thing I hope ya don't do is get a resentment towards AA. There can be some sick people people in AA still practicing old behaviors.
I second BlissWithin's suggestion of visiting the F&F forum here.
Yup, it hurt, but I got through it.
One thing I hope ya don't do is get a resentment towards AA. There can be some sick people people in AA still practicing old behaviors.
I second BlissWithin's suggestion of visiting the F&F forum here.
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you know i could undertsand it (almost) if i was out drinking or treating her badly..but all i ever did was give her unconditional love and support, picked up all the pieces ,, took care of the house and the shopping and the bills ,,supported her in her move to aa programs.. and whats my reward? not that i was looking for one but all i was hoping for was a chance to live a normal life with someone i loved.. i was willing to put up with all the rest because i thought the end result would be everyone sober and happy.. she tells me that shes concentrating on making herself happy,, so let me guess this straight.. her drinking was all about her.. now her recovery is all about her..so every one else just gets crapped on?..
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Sounds like bullspit to me. Concentrating on making herself happy by sleeping with somebody she met in AA? While you provide a home for her? Seriously?
I would dump all her stuff on the front lawn, change the locks and send her a text telling her to come get her crap. Plenty of good women out there complaining they can't find a good man, just need to find yours.
I would dump all her stuff on the front lawn, change the locks and send her a text telling her to come get her crap. Plenty of good women out there complaining they can't find a good man, just need to find yours.
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