Instead of drinking I... I reached the 4 month mark yesterday. I'd like to- share some of the things I now do instead of drinking. Please feel free to add your own. Instead of drinking, I: - watch the sun set - walk my dog - volunteer for activities that get me out in the evenings (I'm volunteering for various festivals) - dance with my Nintendo wii - paint old furniture to make it special - paint on rocks I find at the beach - walk the beach in the evenings - go to flea markets - drive around the country side - wake up early and walk the beach - buy old cheeses and eat them - buy hand made chocolates and eat them - garden - mess up my house and then clean it again - smile because I'm not hungover |
Congrats on reaching four months sober! :scoregood Life is so much better sober. :) |
Congratulations on 4 months Calico I used to drink at home, now I spend more time preparing and cooking food. Plus not being hungover I am able to go out at weekends |
I walk the dog more, and better walks too. I remember to take my make up off at night. I get up early and get busy around the house before work. I show up for work on time and mostly put in a decent day. I go to the gym more and my workouts are actually making some progress (whilst drinking, the ones I could manage were static). I do some gardening in the evening. I'm available to my daughter in a more real way, I'm available to my daughter in a more practical way (she get's more lifts, cos I'm sober!) Good and useful post, thanks! x |
I've been asked a couple of times now in my new community to volunteer my services for one thing or another. No one here knows that I drank. Now, I was not exactly unreliable when I did drink, but now if someone asks me if I can volunteer my time - I don't have to wonder whether I will be hungover. I can say - sure. I'd be glad to help. It won't matter what time of day it is. Another benefit of not drinking. :-) CF |
4 months - Well done you ! Specifically, right now I spent half an hour working out the bass line to " I want you back" by the Jackson Five, then playing it on piano and bass guitar, finally managing to sing along ( almost ). 45 minutes of pure child-like effort, then delight ! This sort of thing never happened in the evenings before. I claimed ( ridiculously, I now see ) that I didn't have the time. 19 days and a much better man for it. Thank you for this thread Fradley :) |
Fradley - Good for you! When I first quit drinking and the anxiety was horrible, I did scales on my guitar just to keep my mind occupied. I've been trying to pick out the notes, by ear, for "Dueling Banjos". :-) CF |
That's great that your volunteering Calico - I feel like I ought to but I work long hours sometimes and worry that I would leave people in the lurch. Might see if I can help with administration or something that is flexible |
Awesome achievement bud |
Great post, Calico!! |
Congrats on 4 months! Those are some fun activities - maybe I'll try painting! |
a great list Calicofish :) mine would be 'I live' :) congrats on 4 months :) D |
When I tried to get sober years ago.....I went to painting classes.....and art museums. That was fun! Maybe I'll do that again..... |
Congrats on four months! That's great. Instead of drinking, I eat my calories I never call in sick to work anymore I don't cancel things at the last minutes citing some stupid and lame excuse "the cat's sick, I'm sick, the kids are sick." I care when my house is messy and then do something about it. I pay my bills on time and have money to pay them. All sorts of stuff. |
Well just today I went to work because now that im sober I have a job. After that I went to my aunts house amd helped her plant a bush. Later on in the day I went to a meditation with my AA sponsor and went over my 8th step. I made amends with my mother for something I did from the past and went to the gym. Today was a great day because I didn't pick up that drink or drug! |
Congratulations on 4 months Calicofish. It's true, we've got so much more time now we're 'awake' and not drunk or hungover. |
Congrats! Awesome! |
Congratulations on 4 months. You are inspiring :You_Rock_ Instead of drinking, I am present in my everyday life. I play with my kids, I listen to them, I carry them, I laugh with them, I cook them dinner, we play board games together. I lay next to my husband on the couch watching movies, with a cup of tea. I take a shower (yeah those were on a need to basis before) I take my makeup off... well to be fair... when I was hungover I never really put any makeup on because.... uhm I'm tired... I do my hair Shape my eyebrows Think about healthy recipes Went back to school so looking forward to a new semester. Do my job when at work!!! I mean... Had some Hot Chocolate the other day and was like mmmmmhhh that's good I pray more with focus Now the one thing I want to add to that list soon is exercise. I have not had the energy but I can feel it picking up. Focusing on being sober for another week and then I will try again. I have tried but the next day I was just too tired. Thank you for an awesome thread!!! |
I think of this every day. Instead of drinking I can do whatever I want, whenever I want. I am no longer a slave in my home after 5 pm, either slurring and stumbling around or passed out. Or blacked out. I am no longer a slave to daily hangovers. |
Well done Calicofish!! Great achievement and such a positive message for others. To add to the list, I: -watch films and remember them afterwards -am slowly able to actually read a book -have conversations without offending anyone, and remember them afterwards!! B |
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