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Old 05-31-2015, 08:16 PM
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Thanks Della, I think my dad's hoping to go home tomorrow. They'll have to do cultures but honestly, he looks the best he's done in ages.
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Old 05-31-2015, 08:19 PM
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Brynn I know we all slowly forget how bad the day after is but take a second and take a real big mental note/picture of how your feeling right now. Please only let this be a blip in your recovery. I'll send some positive vibes through the airwaves.
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Old 05-31-2015, 08:20 PM
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Melki, I hope you're feeling better. I lose my temper with my children. Both very high energy. I'm looking for ways to handle it too. Hugs.
Hugs sister! I don't know where they get all this energy for constant squabbling. I feel exhausted all the time lately. All. The. Time. My patience levels are depleted. And they're not even out on summer vacation yet! Prayers for wisdom and zen motherhood.
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Old 05-31-2015, 08:38 PM
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Omg, melki, I'm sending big hugs. I have no patience lately either. Crabby mommy. Mine are going to all day camp so I'm hoping they're exhausted at the end of the day. Individually, they're fine. Together? There are days I'd love to trade them for a pack of hyenas.
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Old 05-31-2015, 08:42 PM
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I need some of that zen. I put myself in 'space time' today as i completely lost it.

I know the signs too, I push for something, they push back, we all keep pushing. I need to see the build happen sooner and make a call.. How important is it really that we get in the car NOW to go to the beach and HAVE A GREAT TIME ...KIDS..KIDS... arrrrrraasghhhhhhh

I like a feel like a lunatic at times. Poor kids.
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Old 05-31-2015, 08:44 PM
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Brynn. Onwards and upwards. To grow we must feel a bit of pain. We are all in this together.
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Old 05-31-2015, 08:49 PM
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Good night everyone. It's bedtime for bonzo.
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Old 05-31-2015, 08:50 PM
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Trees, I totally get it. Mine get the brunt of it. No one here uses their inside voices. No one listens. Classic "Mom, s/he's on my side!". One can't leave the other alone. One goes into their room for a breather and the other follows and starts it over again. I'm slowly going insane as a result.
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Old 05-31-2015, 08:52 PM
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Goodnight, Bonzo

I'm headed for bed too. Goodnight everyone. I'm planning to post here tomorrow. The banter and companionship helps me stay grounded during the week.
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Goodnight everyone. I got lots done around the house today and I'm pooped. Give your kids lots of hugs and kisses, even though they bug you.
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Old 05-31-2015, 11:18 PM
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Good night? Not fair. Good morning. I shall see if Monday is ok then.
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Old 05-31-2015, 11:40 PM
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Happy Mondays

Brynn, don't be too hard on yourself, you are doing great
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Old 05-31-2015, 11:50 PM
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hey Brynn,
Hauling for ya , it's a new morning here in the UK and i'm sending sober wishes with the dawn .
We're all here for you , relapse is not inevitable but sometimes it happens .

For me resentments usually lays at the root, i pick them out mercilessly , if i have to quit jobs , quit people , situations , upset everyone so be it .

A neferK says rootin' for ya ,

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Old 06-01-2015, 02:13 AM
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Brynn.... we love you! Come back and spend next weekend with us. In the mean time get back to being your real sober self. Do what ever you need to do. You have done it before and can again.

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Old 06-01-2015, 03:08 AM
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Morning peeps. Back to work I suppose. I don't think I won the lottery, guess I would have to play it to win it.
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Old 06-01-2015, 04:27 AM
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Good morning everyone! Monday morning. Another beautiful day, inside. Leaden skies for the third day in a row and cool again. Kids still sleeping, lucky them. I didn't win the lottery either so it's back to work for me.
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Old 06-01-2015, 05:58 AM
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Dang Ruby...I didn't win either.
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Old 06-01-2015, 06:38 AM
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Art, Brynn its a beautiful day! I didn't have to swim to work!
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Old 06-01-2015, 08:55 AM
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I'm glad you didn't have to swim to work, GS. I heard that Texas is due for some extended periods of sunny skies.

How is everyone's day going? I laughed at the "lottery" comment but honestly, I wouldn't want to win enough to retire. I think I'd start drinking without the structure.
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Old 06-01-2015, 08:59 AM
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After last night and talking about kids not behaving? Mine were practically little angels this morning. Got dressed without being reminded. Sat nicely at the table and ate their breakfasts. Who are you people and what have you done with my real children?
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