Stand up can you tell me where it hurts
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Originally Posted by courage2 
Hey Jeff, if you have a wife & family, half of the story is that whatever YOU have going on , THEY have it too. Do you want them to have a sick, broke, miserable chronic drunk husband/father/son in their lives?
You can be a better man than that.
You can be a better man than that.
true enough.
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What exactly is it you want Jeff? In the few sober moment you had yesterday you said you needed to hear what we are saying. You aren't listening though. What is it you would have us do? Or anyone do for that matter?
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There is an excellent program at St. Joe's in downtown St. Paul with 24-hour accessibility. Here's the information, including the contact number:
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Originally Posted by Dee74
I think detox is a great option. Why is it unreasonable?
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Originally Posted by thomas11
are you frickin crazy? I can't leave my life for more than a day or two. I got 4 employees that depend on me, my mortgage and every other god damn debt I have. sorry Dee, but its not relaistic'
There's a better than 99% chance you'll survive detox. What are the odds that you'll survive should you continue to drink?
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From the sound of it, you have so much to be grateful for. It would be a shame if you lost all those good things in your life.
What on earth are you obliterating yourself for??
Where are the missing puzzle pieces?
What on earth are you obliterating yourself for??
Where are the missing puzzle pieces?
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Originally Posted by SoberJennie
From the sound of it, you have so much to be grateful for. It would be a shame if you lost all those good things in your life.
What on earth are you obliterating yourself for??
Where are the missing puzzle pieces?
What on earth are you obliterating yourself for??
Where are the missing puzzle pieces?
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I'll be honest w/you Thomas/Jeff, I don't like to post to people who are drinking/using at the time. But you occasionally sound rational.
I bet you're pretty aware when you're drunk of how f***d up you are. Your dark stuff, your ugly crap all loom up around on all sides. A big heap of dung caving in over your head.
As long as you keep drinking, it will stay that way & get worse & worse.
You CAN be better.
Pour it out. Play some solitaire. Go to bed & make a plan in the morning.
I bet you're pretty aware when you're drunk of how f***d up you are. Your dark stuff, your ugly crap all loom up around on all sides. A big heap of dung caving in over your head.
As long as you keep drinking, it will stay that way & get worse & worse.
You CAN be better.
Pour it out. Play some solitaire. Go to bed & make a plan in the morning.
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Originally Posted by thomas11
Oh god, I have to keep myself under wraps. If I don't i will destroy everything around me including myself. Trust me, when I'm drunk and post on this site, its about 1\4 of what I am capable of. Pretty sad actually, but the truth.
Keeping yourself "under wraps" has limited efficacy and a short shelf life. You need a plan.
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Originally Posted by EndGameNYC
Acknowledging that is a start. It's now time to take action.
Keeping yourself "under wraps" has limited efficacy and a short shelf life. You need a plan.
Keeping yourself "under wraps" has limited efficacy and a short shelf life. You need a plan.
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Piece of ****
I understand that one. Exactly how I felt not too long ago.
There is a way out, when you want it badly enough.
enjoy the numbness, it won't last.
"I'll take Sobriety for free today, Alex." (I liked that U. S. game show called Jeopardy)
I understand that one. Exactly how I felt not too long ago.
There is a way out, when you want it badly enough.
enjoy the numbness, it won't last.
"I'll take Sobriety for free today, Alex." (I liked that U. S. game show called Jeopardy)
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