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Old 05-20-2015, 07:23 PM
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I'm new to this and not sure where to start. I've been married to my husband for 35 years. Alcohol and drugs were not a part of my childhood, nor my adult life and had not been a part of our marriage the first 21 years. 2 months ago I realized he had a drinking problem, before that it was prescription drugs. He did tell me he had had an addiction to prescription drug after a major surgery. It wasn't until 3 years ago that I discovered that. The last 2 years it been alcohol.
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Old 05-20-2015, 07:30 PM
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Welcome Esther! Sorry to hear about your situation.

There's a lot of great info on this site, so make sure you look around.

We also have a section for friends and family of alcoholics:

Friends and Family of Alcoholics - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information

and another for friends and family of substance abusers:

Friends and Family of Substance Abusers - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information

You'll likely find some good stuff and people who have been through or who are going through the same as you
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Old 05-20-2015, 08:03 PM
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Hi Esther. Welcome to SR. I second looking at family and friends. Great support.
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Old 05-20-2015, 11:06 PM
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Welcome to SR Esther.

As the others have said Family and Friends will have people in a similar position to yourself

What does your husband say about this situation. Does he acknowledge it?
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Old 05-21-2015, 04:51 AM
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Hi and welcome.
Also A great resource in your area would be Al-Anon meetings foung by doing an internet search of your area meetings.
They are people who understand because they have been where you now are.
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Old 05-21-2015, 07:00 AM
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Welcome to the family! I hope the support here can help you deal with the situation you're in.
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Old 05-21-2015, 10:32 AM
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Welcome to the Forum Esther!!
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Old 05-21-2015, 10:35 AM
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Welcome to SR, Esther.

Right here is a great place to start.

Glad you found us.
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