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Old 05-02-2015, 07:17 AM
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Hi Jen,

For me personally, I don't have problems being around alcohol. I used to, and even still, keep some in the house, I can go out to restaurants with friends who have a few drinks, etc.

I do however, have huge issues being around addiction. As soon as my radar starts picking up signs, my internal alarm systems goes beserk, all hands on deck, get the heck out of here. So for me personally, I have to remove myself from the situation or person as quickly as I can, so I can stay healthy. Easier said than done I know.
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Old 05-02-2015, 07:35 AM
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I'm so sorry you're hurting. Your situation sounds really stressful.

The F & F world isn't one that I know well, but it does seem like finances keep people stuck in a situation they want to leave. With your schooling, it sounds like the foundation for your independence is being built and giving you options.

I've always thought you're a smart, insightful woman -- your posts here are compassionate and wise.

You deserve contentment and peace in your life, Jen. Don't ever forget that.
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Old 05-02-2015, 07:36 AM
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Jennifer - God's plans for you are good, not evil. No matter what, his plans will always be for your good. Develop a vision of victory for your life. Your doing a great job at setting the example. Heavenly Father, thank you that your plans for Jennifer today are good. Thank you for putting the vision of victory in her heart. Help her to put you first in all that she does. Bless her in a special way that she may be a blessing to others. May God's grace sustain you and wipe away any depression you have. Peace Jennifer.
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Old 05-02-2015, 10:02 AM
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My thoughts are with you Jen!!
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Old 05-02-2015, 10:06 AM
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Sending thoughts prayers & tranquility CG
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Old 05-02-2015, 11:54 AM
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Will be praying.
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Old 05-02-2015, 12:08 PM
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I hope he smartens up before he loses a fantastic, successful, hard working, cool woman!

My thoughts are with you Don't let him bring you down. Keep up the good work!
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Old 05-02-2015, 12:34 PM
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Jennifer, I'm sorry for your situation and I know the heaviness of the feelings you're talking about. Prayers and good thoughts coming your way.
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Old 05-02-2015, 05:05 PM
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Old 05-03-2015, 12:15 AM
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Thank you for all the support. I got some disturbing info from his best friend tonight at work and it seems he is leaving a path of destruction everywhere. Not just here at home. And I like what someone said about building my foundation...I am. It's going to take a while and I hope I have the patience. It's tricky trying to hide all of this from my six year old. Very tricky.

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Old 05-03-2015, 12:20 AM
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Sorry things are like this CG if this carries on will you eventually leave ?

I only say as my gf done it to me (been together neary 15 years) it was the kick up the backside i needed im not saying this will work for you but it did for me my gf meant it too

Sorry things are like this
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Old 05-03-2015, 01:59 AM
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Sending prayers and peaceful thoughts. The universe has a strange way of showing us its path: be on the lookout. There are often moments of extraordinaire clarity.❤️🐰
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Old 05-03-2015, 06:45 AM
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Sorry things are like this CG if this carries on will you eventually leave ? I only say as my gf done it to me (been together neary 15 years) it was the kick up the backside i needed im not saying this will work for you but it did for me my gf meant it too Sorry things are like this
Yes. I will leave. As soon as I am financially stable, or a miracle happens

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Old 05-03-2015, 06:58 AM
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(((((Jennifer))))) have you heard of womens refuge is there any help there or close family

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Old 05-03-2015, 05:16 PM
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He is **** drunk again. He has passed out somewhere in the back yard. He can stay there. I'm tired of this s***. Lots of Mosquitos out tonight too.

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Old 05-03-2015, 07:04 PM
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Praying for you and your situation CG. Stay focused on you and your safety.
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Old 05-03-2015, 08:56 PM
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Praying for you now! :-)
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Old 05-03-2015, 11:04 PM
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Praying for you girl.
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Old 05-04-2015, 12:00 AM
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Praying for you girl.
I wanted to add that I always love your posts and you are one strong lady. You rock!
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Old 05-04-2015, 12:59 AM
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Really sorry CG remember you always have us

Can you stay at a family friends or actual family ?

Me my brother & mum had to do this quite a bit growing up
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