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Old 05-01-2015, 10:42 AM   #1 (permalink)
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i know I'm a jerk. I've always been one. But Thomas 11 sent me a pm that really was mean I don't think I'm cruel. He was. He called me an assailed and that's the nicest thing he called me. Sure am I silly? Stupid? Drunk? Yes. But he was a true meany. Fyi Thomas last nights saved 2 rabbits I am feeding them with droppers. So maybe I am an ass Thomas but I've got some decent qualities too
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Old 05-01-2015, 10:44 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Everyone has some decent qualities capitalize on them.Good luck with the bunnies.
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Old 05-01-2015, 10:46 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I might copy and paste his post. It was nasty.
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Old 05-01-2015, 10:57 AM   #4 (permalink)
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I might copy and paste his post. It was nasty.
Don't do that.
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ESD, just a suggestion but the PM Thomas sent you was meant to be private... hence the "private" in private message.

He didn't call you out in public for your post, so no need to turn this into a public debate.

Just my opinion.
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i know I'm a jerk. I've always been one. But Thomas 11 sent me a pm that really was mean I don't think I'm cruel. He was. He called me an assailed and that's the nicest thing he called me. Sure am I silly? Stupid? Drunk? Yes. But he was a true meany. Fyi Thomas last nights saved 2 rabbits I am feeding them with droppers. So maybe I am an ass Thomas but I've got some decent qualities too
Hi ESD, I owe you an apology, and I wish to extend you one. The harshness of my PM was my own problem, not yours. And for that I am sorry. Something struck a chord with me that apparently hit a nerve and I responded completely inappropriately. Please don't let my PM discourage you from the wealth of knowledge that you can garner from this website. I feel really bad. Jeff (which is my real name)
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Hi ESD, I owe you an apology, and I wish to extend you one. The harshness of my PM was my own problem, not yours. And for that I am sorry. Something struck a chord with me that apparently hit a nerve and I responded completely inappropriately. Please don't let my PM discourage you from the wealth of knowledge that you can garner from this website. I feel really bad. Jeff (which is my real name)
Very big of you to apologise and hopefully that is enough and everyone can go back to being friends.
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Hi ESD, I owe you an apology, and I wish to extend you one. The harshness of my PM was my own problem, not yours. And for that I am sorry. Something struck a chord with me that apparently hit a nerve and I responded completely inappropriately. Please don't let my PM discourage you from the wealth of knowledge that you can garner from this website. I feel really bad. Jeff (which is my real name)
Very decent of you to apologise Thomas. This is a beautiful community and although emotions can run high, we can learn a lot from each other and of course, stay sober!
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As "janelane" said, well done.
This should always be a caring community where we can all get along.
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Old 05-01-2015, 02:47 PM   #12 (permalink)
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i know I'm a jerk. I've always been one. But Thomas 11 sent me a pm that really was mean I don't think I'm cruel. He was. He called me an assailed and that's the nicest thing he called me. Sure am I silly? Stupid? Drunk? Yes. But he was a true meany. Fyi Thomas last nights saved 2 rabbits I am feeding them with droppers. So maybe I am an ass Thomas but I've got some decent qualities too
ESD, I went back and re-read my message I sent to you. your response above is sweet compared to what I sent you. I feel horrible and you sound like a much nicer person than myself. Again, I am so sorry. This will not happen again. I need to reel myself in when getting emotional. Emotional is a code word for me that means "pissed off".

It appears you are in Florida....and I am jealous. Have a great evening.
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