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Old 04-09-2015, 03:26 PM
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New to the forum

Hi all,
So, as the title says, I'm new to this forum. I'm looking for support as I start my new sober life and would love to give support to others. This forum appears pretty big, so I'm looking forward to posting and getting used to the site.

I'm on day two of being alcohol free. I've struggled with alcohol misuse for many years but two days ago I ended up in hospital (again) and it's affected my work so this has to stop. I need to start to be honest with everyone and sort myself out and I finally feel ready to do this.

Anyway, hi everyone.
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Old 04-09-2015, 03:31 PM
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Welcome rose.

I was so thankful when I found SR - I knew I never had to be alone with my struggle. Everyone understood and encouraged me. The support is amazing - and we're open 24/7. You can do it rose - it'll feel great to be free.
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Old 04-09-2015, 03:34 PM
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Welcome to SR, you will find lot's of support here.
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Old 04-09-2015, 03:39 PM
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Welcome Rose28. Congratulations on quitting. So many people are in the same position so you are never alone

It's a big site with lots of areas to find out stuff and get ideas and feedback
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HI rose! All 147,200 of us are watching you. And we're all on your side.
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Old 04-09-2015, 03:48 PM
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Thanks everyone. I was planning on getting to sleep, but I just can't stop looking through all the areas and threads!

I was wondering if you had any advice on where to get started. Should I get straight into the 12 steps and find a sponsor? I feel like deciding on a sponsor should be a personal and quite big choice, in which case it wouldn't make sense for that to be the first thing to do. Perhaps I should start the steps alone and focus on posting throughout the forum and starting my blog. I think I've just answered myself! X
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Old 04-09-2015, 03:54 PM
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Start by going to a MEETINGS. Take a little time to find a sponsor. IMO you'll probably know who to ask soon after you meet her.
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Old 04-09-2015, 03:59 PM
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Hi rose. I'm new to this to. The people are amazing here it's really been helping me. Sounds like you took the first step. Good luck girl
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Welcome to SR, Rose.
Glad you found your way here.
It's a great resource for info and encouragement.
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Old 04-09-2015, 04:05 PM
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Originally Posted by awuh1 View Post
Start by going to a MEETINGS. Take a little time to find a sponsor. IMO you'll probably know who to ask soon after you meet her.
I've been advised to go to meetings from my previous counsellor but the thought of even getting to the venue scares and intimidates me way too much. I'm hoping I'll find the strength to push through those feelings soon and get to a meeting. X
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Old 04-09-2015, 04:15 PM
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Welcome to the family! You've made a smart decision to get sober. I did it over five years ago and don't regret a minute of it. My life is a thousand times better than it was.
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Welcome to the Forum Rose!!
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Old 04-09-2015, 04:19 PM
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Welcome, Rose,

There are many paths to recovery and you will find a variety of recovery methods here, so take your time and look around. There's a lot going on here, but we are a family and we do understand how hard this is.
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Hi Rose - welcome!

we may be big but I know you'll feel at home here in a little while. I'm glad you've joined us

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Old 04-09-2015, 04:31 PM
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Thank you so much for the welcoming messages, just knowing there is support here for me already feels great. Now, to get through this weekend!! X
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Day six for me. I stumbled along this sit and it's changing my life I hope it does the same for you. Be strong girl!
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Old 04-09-2015, 07:21 PM
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Hi Rose! It's nice to meet you. Like Anna said. ..there's many ways to do this. Read and post a lot here and you will find your way, what feels right for you. SR has helped me get and stay sober. ...I'm on this site a few times a day. Stick with us. ..we'll all be rooting for you.
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Old 04-09-2015, 07:23 PM
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Welcome glad your not trying to do it alone lots of good ppl here willing to help and to listen
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Old 04-09-2015, 07:29 PM
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Rose you are welcome here, just like AA all we care about is that you have a desire to quit drinking.

You can post all you want, at any time you want and there will be an understanding reader.

At two days like you are, post alot, read alot and throw yourself into learning how we have moved on with our lives. It can be bumpy, but there is support here to get you through the bumps

I promise, there is not a one among us who regrets finding this place and the support here.
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Welcome to the forum rose. You'll find lots of support here.
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