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God I miss her

My wonderful daughter I miss you so much this morning. I am honoring your memory by staying sober but the pain at times can be almost unbearable. I know I will not feel this way forever but it is so hard when I do. My heart is breaking.

Prayers going out to all those that have lost someone they love.
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Old 04-07-2015, 04:04 AM
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Old 04-07-2015, 04:21 AM
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Big hug from a fellow mid-westerner. Be strong. And kind to yourself.
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Thinking of you, MIR. Life is hard and it's unfair, but we are here and she would be so proud of your sobriety. Take comfort in that and stay strong.
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Old 04-07-2015, 04:34 AM
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I Pray for you and her everyday.

Much love and peace at you our dear friend.
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Old 04-07-2015, 04:36 AM
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The great thing about meetings is we can give/have hugs at times like this.

I’m saying a prayer and sending a hug to you.

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Old 04-07-2015, 05:23 AM
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My thoughts are with you, MIR. All the best to you on this day.
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Prayers and meditations for you and yours MIR. So sorry for your deep anguish.
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Old 04-07-2015, 07:23 AM
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I welled up a bit reading that im so sorry MIR ((()))
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Thank you for all of the kind words and prayers. The grief comes like a wave at unexpected times and for a while you feel like you are drowning.

I knew this was going to be hard but losing a child takes hard to a whole different level. I want so bad for this incapacitating grief to be over but it isn't. I can't even look at a picture of her yet.

Things are better than they were and I am gratefull for all of you and others in my life that have extended a helping had
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