Hope for us yet This might inspire a few of you, especially if you're struggling with PAWS: I drank for a long time. Many times over the last decade or two, my husband would ask me if I remembered this or that -- a movie, a trip, an afternoon, big things, small things. I got really tired of always answering, "no, I don't remember what you're talking about." A whole city we visited together left no trace in my head. I'd make a joke of it -- I'd say, "I'm easy to entertain, because I can watch the same movie over & over, and it never gets old." I treated it like an eccentricity: I'd tell people who had little things they needed from me, "if you don't see me writing it down, this conversation hasn't happened." I'd lie and say I remembered things when I didn't. It was all the booze. Life in brownout. Tonight my husband asked me if I remembered something we did around Christmas time, nothing important. I did! I was there. My mind is returning, and life is starting to leave an impression. |
I was once told that I talked someone, a stranger to me, out of committing suicide during a blackout, though the person who told me the next day didn't know I was blacked out. Of course I told her. To this day she still does not believe me. And I don't think I believe her either. |
It is always encouraging to hear how things get better with sobriety. Thank you so much Courage for sharing! :hug: |
Kudos to your sobriety! Keep it up. |
How about not remembering most of a whole family sailing vacation due to drinking? ( that was me ) Brown out indeed..... Never again! |
:c014: great stuff Courage :) D |
Can so relate to this post. It's a great feeling indeed! Thanks, Courage. |
Exellent Courage |
Gosh I hate that feeling of forgetting things! Yay that we don't have to do that anymore!!!! Great post! |
My latest drinking episode left me completely mortified, apparently I told a friend that I would do something for them (that would literally take MONTHS of my time and money), I was so blown away when my kid mentioned it the next morning. I had 6-7 drinks that night and do not even remember getting buzzed, never mind blacked out, I still can't make sense out of it. Still don't know how I'm getting out of it and my son was witness to the whole conversation. UGH I seriously have to quit. Day 5 today (again). |
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