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Old 03-21-2015, 02:16 PM
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Hi, I am new to this site of course. How are you? I would like to stay sober. Bottom line Now what do I do?
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Old 03-21-2015, 02:20 PM
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Welcome. I'm here to ask the same question. I wish you well.
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Old 03-21-2015, 02:23 PM
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Welcome to SR Sela & Abe!

I will let those much more qualified than I answer that question!

Just wanted to say hello!
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Old 03-21-2015, 02:26 PM
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Hi Sela,

Welcome to SR! Well, what I did initially was share my hopes and fears with the community and considered the feedback. What I would suggest is a lot of posting and reading throughout the site. Whatever you are experiencing right now, you are not alone.

What is going on right now in your life, Sela?

And welcome to you ABE70, as well!

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Old 03-21-2015, 02:34 PM
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I have been here about 4 days and have the same goal as you. I wish you the best. So far I have had a lot of good conversations in the chat room. You are not alone here and people will understand your struggles.
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Old 03-21-2015, 02:37 PM
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Welcome to our newcomers. The first thing to do is to put down the bottle. Don't pick up that first drink, no matter what! Second would be to get support. Here or in some sobriety program like AA or AVRT.
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Old 03-21-2015, 02:51 PM
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Hi and Welcome everyone,

Least has good pointS. Steps are usually as follow

- Get sober by detoxing safely, speak to your doctor
- Inpatient and outpatient are options for detox and treatment
- Find support like SR, AA, AVRT, SMART recovery groups
- find support in your family and friends
- Make a list of why you want to stop, optional but helpful
- You might need counselling to identify possible underlying mental health issues

Never pickup the first drink, even if you feel better physically and think one won't hurt.

Mumbling here, some will add some good stuff I'm sure

Rock on!
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Old 03-21-2015, 03:05 PM
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Welcome to the Forum Sela!!
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Old 03-21-2015, 03:49 PM
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Glad to meet you Sela and ABE. It really helped me to talk things over with people who understood. You'll find encouragement and support here - you're no longer alone.
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Old 03-21-2015, 04:48 PM
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Welcome guys.

where to go from here?

Read around post as much as you like - learn more about the various approaches many of us use...then pick the one you like the sound of most

That's a good first step
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Old 03-21-2015, 04:55 PM
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Find a local support group that you feel comfortable in. Use this site as much as you can. Post as many questions, problems, vent sessions as you want. That's why we are all here.
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Old 03-21-2015, 04:55 PM
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Welcome to SR!!!

I'd never been part of a forum when I found SR, didn't have a clue about how it worked. I read, a LOT, went through various forums, posted some and found out that we all have a lot in common.

I'm really glad you are here!

Hugs and prayers,

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Old 03-21-2015, 04:57 PM
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Welcome Sela & Welcome abe its nice to meet you both
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Old 03-21-2015, 04:57 PM
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Hi Sela! You'll get lots of support here! Read, read, read is what has helped me so far!

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Old 03-21-2015, 05:49 PM
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