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Old 03-14-2015, 04:04 PM
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Paying my dues

Far from being "hey here's my life story please feel sorry for me"...

I was a singer for a "big" (so they say) rock band in the early 80s.

The key word is...I WAS. The 80s have long gone and it has taken me this long to accept this.

Simply put, I did too much drugs and too much drink for almost 20 years. Now I am here to try not to die.

The end.
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Old 03-14-2015, 04:10 PM
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Welcome!

We do understand how hard this is, and I'm glad you found us.
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Old 03-14-2015, 04:11 PM
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Welcome along anyway!

Its nice having you with us.
Does your doctor know you are trying not 'to die?'
I'm sure thats what he/she would want you to do but would any check ups or help in that department help?

I wish you the best xx
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Welcome to the family. You'll find lots of support here.
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yes my doctor is fully onboard (he lives in Berlin)
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Old 03-14-2015, 04:13 PM
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Welcome AnonRock! I drank for 30 yrs., I hear you. This is a great place for support & encouragement as you heal & get yourself well. We're glad you found us.

(I'm not sure how the 80's can be 3 decades ago. )
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That's when it gets real, right? When you know you're going to die.

Glad you found us. Hang in.
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Old 03-14-2015, 04:22 PM
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Old 03-14-2015, 04:30 PM
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Hi from another 80's person xxxxx
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Old 03-14-2015, 04:38 PM
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please bear with me while I work all this **** out
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Old 03-14-2015, 04:55 PM
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Old 03-14-2015, 05:11 PM
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Old 03-14-2015, 05:14 PM
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Welcome to SR!!

I can't quite grasp that the 80's were a few decades ago (denial) but I'm really glad you have found us! Welcome to a really big family, full of people who get what you are going through and who care.

Hugs and prayers,

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Welcome to SR, Anon!! A lot of nice and understanding people here. You don't have to be alone, cause you aren't. The 80's I remember those days, I remember that spray so much hair spray in my hair I though I had wings... HAHAHA!! Good times, also bad times... The past is the past and we can change just give it time. Hope to see you around.
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Hang in there, Rock!! You'll get through this!
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Old 03-14-2015, 07:44 PM
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The 80's can't be over I still have banana clips! Welcome to a wonderful place.
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Old 03-14-2015, 07:56 PM
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Welcome anon. I'm sure it has taken a long time for many of us to realize the extent of our drinking and drug problems. In that regard, you're not alone. Looking back, I should have seen my problem years before I finally admitted I had one. But better late than never.

I hope you stick around, you will find a lot of support and help here.
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