The Sun is Rising...
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The Sun is Rising...
For the first time since October, Philadelphia has been warm enough to do what I love doing most...wandering aimlessly for hours marveling at this amazing city. It was warm, sunny, and full of hope.
After almost a year of unemployment, a year that transformed me from borderline alcoholic into someone with a very real problem, I'm looking at the impending spring with a sense of optimism and rebirth. This alcoholic isn't me. I hate him. I hate drinking. He's someone that emerges around 6PM, a byproduct of boredom and fear.
But I'm more than that. I'm starting over. My career, my social life, I'm revisiting the person I was twenty years ago with the added benefit of hindsight.
I've never been one to learn from my mistakes. I give great advice I rarely follow. Who does't? But if I'm going to be a better person, if I'm going to thrive, I need to recognize my vices and shortcomings along side my strengths.
I keep telling myself, "if I land this job, I'll quit drinking." But no one's listening. Nor should they. The only higher power is myself. I will never land that job, I will never be that better person, until I decide to make myself that better person. This is my war to win. And the sun cresting across Fairmount Park has renewed my hope that this winter - and my struggle with the bottle - will end.
After almost a year of unemployment, a year that transformed me from borderline alcoholic into someone with a very real problem, I'm looking at the impending spring with a sense of optimism and rebirth. This alcoholic isn't me. I hate him. I hate drinking. He's someone that emerges around 6PM, a byproduct of boredom and fear.
But I'm more than that. I'm starting over. My career, my social life, I'm revisiting the person I was twenty years ago with the added benefit of hindsight.
I've never been one to learn from my mistakes. I give great advice I rarely follow. Who does't? But if I'm going to be a better person, if I'm going to thrive, I need to recognize my vices and shortcomings along side my strengths.
I keep telling myself, "if I land this job, I'll quit drinking." But no one's listening. Nor should they. The only higher power is myself. I will never land that job, I will never be that better person, until I decide to make myself that better person. This is my war to win. And the sun cresting across Fairmount Park has renewed my hope that this winter - and my struggle with the bottle - will end.
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Well said. I'm in a Philly Fitness group that just posted a great article about doers vs complainers. The short of it was, we all have the same 24 hours in a day. Whether we decide to complain about what we need to do vs actually doing it is completely up to us.
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