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Old 03-01-2015, 08:07 AM
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Today is day one for me- again. I really need to find strength in the evening when I want to turn to wine to relax me.
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Old 03-01-2015, 08:13 AM
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Welcome to SR, freedom. Are you able to change your evening routine?
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Old 03-01-2015, 08:16 AM
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This evening when I feel like drinking wine I will _________ instead.

Fill in the blank now. I quit far too many times and then hoped the desire to drink would just disappear. When it didn't I was totally reactive. When I started planning in advance I was in a much better position to deal with it.

Best of Luck!
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Old 03-01-2015, 08:40 AM
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I will read a book instead of drinking wine!
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Old 03-01-2015, 09:12 AM
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Welcome to the Forum Freedom!!

Support was important for me when my mind in isolation would try to convince me to drink, when my good intentions would fade as evening fell, when that glass of wine sounds like a good idea you may need something to give you a second opinion on things, something to short circuit your own thoughts.

Using SR in the evenings, simply reading it, or reaching out through posting can get you through!!
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Old 03-01-2015, 10:41 AM
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Originally Posted by freedom1438 View Post
I will read a book instead of drinking wine!
Good idea. Make it a recovery-related book.
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Old 03-01-2015, 10:46 AM
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Hi Freedom. Thank you for reaching out to me. I can't message back until I have 5 posts. We seem to have a lot in common. I'm a complete insomniac and rationalize my drinking to help me sleep. It's not helping me sleep, I'm passing out...and this is not healthy. I agree with finding something healthy to replace the drinking.
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Old 03-01-2015, 03:31 PM
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Welcome Freedom
use us when you feel vulnerable - just log on and post...

support can really help

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Old 03-01-2015, 03:34 PM
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Welcome to the family! You've come to a very supportive place.
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