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Old 01-28-2015, 05:44 AM
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318 days!!!

Hello all:

I didn't post my 10 month mark because I was traveling back that day and then I thought it was to late to post for that mark but then I thought of how much pleasure I get from the encouragement I get here so I thought I would just post my number of days. So: I have 10.5 months and I feel grew about it. I still have booze dreams and AV pops up but when that happens I use all my tools learned here.

My family is going through a hard patch. My FIL has been diagnosed with a serious illness and we just had a death in the family. I am dealing with all of this sober. I was just thinking that I haven't thrown up in10.5 months. Before, I threw up every time I drank (always the next day, DTs). Before I would also always gag when I brushed my teeth. None of that anymore.

I recently went on a "girls night" and one of my drunk friends told me she wished I would drink again... I just kept quiet. I wish for world peace...

I have also reached out a little bit here. I have sent friend requests to those here that I recognize. I am not getting complacent and I am remaining involved here. This place is like my AA meeting. I kid you not. I read here EVERY day! It's working, working great.

I didn't say this before but in my vacay I held a drink during a toast. Just held it and didn't take a sip. It wasn't hard and I felt empowered. I know it's a little cowardly but I didn't want to have those conversations at the party, it wasn't the time or place. I just wanted to fit in and mesh with the crowd. Playing with fire? I guess it was a controlled burn

Thanks for everything guys. All of you "strangers" have helped me more in this journey that the people that love me the most and for this I am greatful. This place has made a real difference in my life. Can't wait to post for my 11 months!

I'm so happy about being sober. It hasn't been easy but it has been worth it!
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Old 01-28-2015, 05:52 AM
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Congratulations, great job on 10.5 months.
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Congratulations, nowsthetime. 318 days is huge!!!!!
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Old 01-28-2015, 06:38 AM
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Well done on 318 days that is awesome

Congrats Nows
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Old 01-28-2015, 06:45 AM
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Congratulations on 10.5 months!
Holding the drink...on NY Eve, at that time only my second or so sober day, around midnight someone gave me a glass of champagne. I took it and toasted the new year and after kissing my wifey quietly put the flute on a kitchen counter. Nobody was the wiser, not that it would have mattered.
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Old 01-28-2015, 06:59 AM
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Great Job! Being in those situations are extremely awkward at times and the pier pressure is always their! Good job to be able to hold a drink and not even think about drinking it! I've had friends do that to me knowing that I don't drink it's like their constantly testing you the world is s big test when your sober and their are many ads or billboards or people trying to get you to waste your money and time on drinking but it's a great feeling when you don't succumb to those ads or pier pressure you feel like you can conquer the world! Keep it up
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Old 01-28-2015, 07:14 AM
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Well done on 318 days! Amazing.

Had to laugh at the 'I want world peace' comment.....
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Old 01-28-2015, 07:46 AM
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Great job on over 10 months! It is a true inspiration, thanks for sharing it really helps and gives hope to someone like me! SR is also my AA meeting. Keep us informed on your progress, happy trails!
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Old 01-28-2015, 08:11 AM
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Congratulations! What a fantastic thing to read first thing in the morning. Very inspiring!!
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Old 01-28-2015, 09:02 AM
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Congratulations on your milestone. I like the "controlled burn" comment. Keep going, stay strong.
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Old 01-28-2015, 10:03 AM
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Fantastic Nowsthetime!!
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Old 01-28-2015, 10:51 AM
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Old 01-28-2015, 07:25 PM
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Congrats on 10.5 months nowisthetime

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Congratulations on the sober time!
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