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Old 01-23-2015, 09:25 PM
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Good Evening ladies and gentlemen. I am writing to you today in hopes of some support. I'm Greg and I'm 28. Despite having it all (great girl, dental school finally on the horizon, friends and family) I threw it all away. I've tried many methods to stop my self-destructive behavior and am currently two days into it again. Apparently my employers and family are ok with me. I just don't want to blow it and am trying everything not to do so (therapy, new girlfriend, socializing, etc.). I have never reached out like this, as I hate asking for anything, but I have finally reached the point of struggling to get by the day. Any comments, criticisms, and whatnot is appreciated.

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Old 01-23-2015, 09:40 PM
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Hey Greg and welcome!

I could criticze you, but it would be hypocritical since I am also 28 and am guilty of self-destructive behavior. But thanks in large part to this awesome place, I am now on the right path.

You're gonna get there too, and we're gonna help you. I'm glad you're here.

More power to you!
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Old 01-23-2015, 09:46 PM
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Greg- welcome! Sure glad you're here. Sounds like you have some great things in your life. That's awesome. I'm new in my recovery but I could really relate to your hating to ask for anything. For me, I decided I'd do whatever was needed in order to succeed and be sober for good even if it means being open to help. Best decision ever!!
Hope to see you around- take care!
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Old 01-23-2015, 09:49 PM
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mns1, thanks. Just reading and being able to write back tremendously helps me. Have a good evening!
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Old 01-23-2015, 09:52 PM
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Tally, thanks much. It's really hard for me and I am not sure why. I really appreciate your kindness!
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Welcome. You're in the right place here. Hang in there. It does get easier after a while. At first it is so hard, but there are so many great people here to support you. Please post if you're feeling you need support.

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Originally Posted by gconklin View Post
mns1, thanks. Just reading and being able to write back tremendously helps me. Have a good evening!
Yeah man read around, explore, post often, and don't be shy.

These are some of the finest listeners in the world right here on SR!
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Old 01-23-2015, 10:23 PM
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These are some of the finest listeners in the world right here on SR!
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At first it is so hard, but there are so many great people here to support you.

So true! There's something pretty great about finding out you're not even close to being alone.
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Old 01-23-2015, 10:25 PM
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Nice to meet you! I am seven days in, and log on here any time I have urges or am struggling! I really hope you stick it out. Dental School! Wow! Please don't throw that away! Happy you are here with me!
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Old 01-24-2015, 01:11 AM
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Welcome to the Forum Greg!!
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Old 01-24-2015, 04:45 AM
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Welcome to the gang Greg - you'll find a lot of support here

Hows the counseling going for you?

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Old 01-24-2015, 04:51 AM
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Welcome Gregg nice to meet you
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Welcome and lovely to meet you. You'll find amazing support here xx
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Welcome, Greg, to SR. You've come to a great place. We are here for you 24/7/365.
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