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Old 01-16-2015, 06:56 AM
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I have admitted my drinking is a problem, although I don't see anything getting easy anytime soon. talking with my doctor today. SCARED !!!
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Old 01-16-2015, 07:17 AM
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It won't get easy quickly. That is why most of us take it one day at time. There are days that feel better and days that feel like pure crap but if you handle one at a time, you can make it through.

Hang in there.
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Old 01-16-2015, 07:17 AM
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It takes a lot to admit you have a problem so well done. Stopping isnt easy but it can be done.

Hope things go well at the Dr.

Good luck!
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Old 01-16-2015, 07:26 AM
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Old 01-16-2015, 07:29 AM
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guess I need to pick a day and run with it
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Old 01-16-2015, 07:34 AM
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guess I need to pick a day and run with it
Today! Don't put it off waiting for a "better" time. The best time in now.
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Old 01-16-2015, 07:35 AM
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Today is a good day to stop drinking.
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Old 01-16-2015, 07:43 AM
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Today!!!!! Pick today, NEEDINGCHANGE.

Speaking with your doctor is a great step!
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Old 01-16-2015, 07:57 AM
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Old 01-16-2015, 08:00 AM
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today.
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why put off til tomorrow what you can do today?!
good for you for going to see the Dr. as well.
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Old 01-16-2015, 08:19 AM
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I have admitted my drinking is a problem, although I don't see anything getting easy anytime soon. talking with my doctor today. SCARED !!!
Way to go !!!! No day is better than today
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Old 01-16-2015, 09:16 AM
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I hear you, Brother. I drank a lot for 25 years. Every day. I tried to quit many times, but the fear, anxiety, ennui, and stress always made those stints of sobriety very brief.

In the end it takes a leap of faith. People on this forum - people who understood what alcohol addiction is like - told me it would get better if I just rode it out. Running out of options I pushed the I believe button and put the bottle down.

They were right. I was a slave to that fear and anxiety - and by extension to the bottle. I never knew it until I got my first taste of freedom. It was better than any beer ever.

You are stronger than you believe you are, and you can do this.
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Old 01-16-2015, 10:23 AM
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Today !!

Once you get over that first few days, you should be feeling better.

I understand your fear -my first post here contained the word "scared", too.

We are all here to support you.
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Old 01-16-2015, 03:20 PM
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You can do this!! Things will get better with time, it can be done!!
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Old 01-16-2015, 03:30 PM
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best wishes - let us know how you get on

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Old 01-16-2015, 04:32 PM
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Welcome Needchange! We're all in this together - we help each other stay strong. You can have the life you want - you don't need that poison. Glad to meet you.
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Old 01-16-2015, 04:35 PM
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What did doc say?

How are you now??
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Old 01-18-2015, 11:36 AM
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how's it going nfc38? did you talk to a doc yet? What they tell you?
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Old 01-18-2015, 12:37 PM
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You only need to stay sober one day at a time - and some days, it's moment to moment. When you stay sober today, your life is easier, simpler, and on your terms.
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