Robin Williams "I used to think that the worst thing in life is to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone." |
if someone is making me feel something, then I am a willing participant.... feeling alone in a crowd was my own doing just my experience |
Originally Posted by sugarbear1
(Post 5129995)
if someone is making me feel something, then I am a willing participant.... feeling alone in a crowd was my own doing just my experience I can see how one could feel that way. So you have the control? |
I was full of self centered fear then today, it's about fully human interaction |
People that would make me feel all alone were the very ones right there in my immediate family. It was the lack of understanding and communication. Once I got into recovery and was taught and learned about my addiction I immediately became knowledgeable about it. That knowledge left the rest of my family in question. I always say that it takes an addict or alcoholic to know one and in my situation, I was the only one with an addiction to alcohol in my little family so they truly didn't know me or understand my illness or my recovery. Anyway, that is why I felt all alone in my family because of that lack of under- standing and communication. So, I retreated to many many AA meetings to surround myself with others just like me who have been there or done the same similar things in life I have. And..... WE in recovery have a solution to incorporate in our everyday life in learning to live a sober, clean, healthy, happy, honest, way of life for many yrs to come. :) Im no longer ALL ALONE like I use to be yrs ago. Today I BELONG. :) |
AAA: "I want some of the stuff you got :)" |
oops: AAS :) |
I have a picture of Robin with that quote on my work desk. May his soul rest in peace. I too used to be around people who made me feel all alone. It's a constant struggle to get out of that mindset. Robin was doing great for a long time, then it got him again and sucked him back in. I've been there many times myself. I only hope that the publicity of Robin's death will show people that they don't have to die alone. There is hope. We are all here together in this. |
Originally Posted by aasharon90
(Post 5130093)
people that would make me feel all alone were the very ones right there in my immediate family. It was the lack of understanding and communication. Once i got into recovery and was taught and learned about my addiction i immediately became knowledgeable about it. That knowledge left the rest of my family in question. I always say that it takes an addict or alcoholic to know one and in my situation, i was the only one with an addiction to alcohol in my little family so they truly didn't know me or understand my illness or my recovery. Anyway, that is why i felt all alone in my family because of that lack of under- standing and communication. So, i retreated to many many aa meetings to surround myself with others just like me who have been there or done the same similar things in life i have. and..... We in recovery have a solution to incorporate in our everyday life in learning to live a sober, clean, healthy, happy, honest, way of life for many yrs to come. :) im no longer all alone like i use to be yrs ago. Today i belong. :) |
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