Looking for support please
 

Im on Day 10.
Been dealing with the usual quit stuff we all do....
That Said, TODAY the AV is screaming at me that Im doing great -
so NOW ITS TIME to have a few tonight to celebrate.

This voice even had the audacity to scream this as I read my own
journal notes I wrote on how shi**Y I felt while drinking nightly.

aarg
chime in please!!!

you came and posted here, so that is a GREAT start wouldn't you say?
I don't know where you are (it's frikken cold where I am) - but go for a walk?
library? gym? mall?
distract yourself! :)

Here is a quote from you about the last time you drank and your first blackout just a couple of weeks ago. You won't have "just a few"...that boat left the dock a long time ago. Choosing to have just a few, or even one will mean choosing all the other things that come along with the obligatory binge. And whatever you won't remember again in your next blackout...etc.

"Last Sat, went to family event (X mas related).
Had a beer , PANICKED! - because I would have to go back at least six more times to keep buzz going-(what if I cant get enough-quick enough?)
So I bought a pitcher. pounded it. Then another.
Next thing I know Im trashed....evening continues....
Next morning(hung over btw)When the better half asked how I liked her Moms food that night
I COULD NOT REMEMBER EATING - LIKE AT ALL!!!
My first Blackout.
Im done, ENOUGH
Im back with ya all....to stay."

Ten days is cause for celebration...buy yourself a cake!

Hang in there, livingnow! That's how it gets me, too. I'm on day 10 also. I've found it helpful to look forward to the next milestone. 2 weeks, maybe? We're 4 days away from a full two weeks, if we drink today we'll be 14 days away. That would suck!

....double post

I'm glad you're on Day 10, great.

Recognizing the AV is a big step forward because then you can see it for what it is and let it go.

Good point. Thanks Anna

Your AV is after pitchers and just trying to get you to bite on the idea of a 'few', tell it to bugger off. You can do this, btw just one is an even bigger lie.

paint run write clean house dance your special someone around.. please don't take a drink or a drug to say hey dumby you got this far with.. please ... remember why you are doing this path of light and hope and please look at yourself in the mirror and know this is a better person for the try that got you this far.. ardy...

Your AV is a liar!

great job posting! My AV is a tricky devil too: just when I started feeling better and more confident, it said, "See, you are all 'better' now." Agree with turtle: it is a liar!

Take care!

This is a challenging time for most people. The initial high of starting your journey has worn off, & your mood is likely to dip.

All I can say is that if you hang in there, you will get your second wind. You will start to feel great again, & remember why you're doing this to begin with. Plan ahead, don't be too hard on yourself and hang in there.

I second Turtle82, with this addendum: that "voice" is always a liar, always has been, always will be - no exceptions!

10 days is great progress! I agree with the others that your AV is a stinking liar.

Good on you for posting instead of drinking!!! Your AV is going to f*ck with you, mine does from time to time. Don't listen to it!

Don't throw away Day 10!! Keep pushing through to Day 11!!

You can do this!! :)

This site (you guys) are so awesome! Im taking advice offered by some of you...
I just got back from a very cold - but refreshing walk - cleared my head.
SERIOUSLY- Im going to (ask the wife) to bake a cake for me.
I DO deserve it. dont I....???
Yes. I do.
Again Thanks- Im not drinking - screw the AV

Way to go Living now awesome job

Enjoy the cake

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