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Old 12-11-2014, 04:48 AM
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Passed a test

Yesterday I had a birthday for a friend of my daughter's. I had mentioned that I don't drink to the mom. (First time we have ever hung out.) Yesterday when the wine came out they kind of became awkward and asked me if it was ok. I told her that of course it was and I poored the wine and initiated a toast with my glass of water...

when she first offered it caught me off guard but Mananged and I was proud.

I thank the tools I have gathered here for helping me handle these situations.

I had a great time and when I left, it was great to know that I wasn't driving drunk, that I wouldn't get home and want more and that I wouldnt have a hang over today. Sober life is great!

I'm so happy for my little victory. Little victories win the war.
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Old 12-11-2014, 05:15 AM
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Well Done!
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Old 12-11-2014, 10:18 AM
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Thanks ThePatman. I need the validation. Still very little support from the actors in my real life.
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Old 12-11-2014, 10:25 AM
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Little victory = Huge success.

Well done, nowsthetime.
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Old 12-11-2014, 10:29 AM
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The mom said that she looked forward to more playdates so I guess that not drinking wasn't really an issue. But I did notice she got uncomfortable when the wine came out but I think the way I handled it was great. I really do not mind of others drink. My AV did whisper but I'm on to it so no biggie there either.
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Old 12-11-2014, 10:36 AM
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Awesome
The 'little' victories are the war
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Old 12-11-2014, 10:39 AM
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You handled it very well, nowsthetime. The unease that the other mom showed was most likely an expression of respect.
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Old 12-11-2014, 11:13 AM
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Great job on pushing through!!
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Old 12-11-2014, 11:15 AM
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That's a significant achievement, Nowsthetime, and a lovely post
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