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Old 12-04-2014, 03:05 PM
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I will do this!

Hi, I'm on day 3 of no drinking, I feel good and haven't been craving much yet. This isn't my first time to try stopping I've made it a year before, then several months, then decided I could handle a few drinks now and then. I now realize that I can't drink! I black out and have those feelings of guilt the next day, and I'm tired of feeling crappy. If I made it a year before then I can make it for life!
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Old 12-04-2014, 03:11 PM
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Welcome to the forum and SR Richomechanic

Well done on day 3 and yes if you have made a year sober before then you know how possible it really is

for me to stay stopped acceptance was key & a good recovery plan

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Welcome to SR richomechanic

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Old 12-04-2014, 03:12 PM
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Welcome to the forums here at SR, RichoMechanic, and congratulations on your decision to choose sobriety. I admire your enthusiasm and commitment, and like other aspects of change and achievement, those are two great predictors of your continued success. Simply awesome. Hope you stick around and post often to share that message of yours, it and you are most welcome here.
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Old 12-04-2014, 03:41 PM
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Thanks for the welcome and support!
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Old 12-04-2014, 03:43 PM
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Old 12-04-2014, 03:52 PM
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It's great to meet you Richo. You're in good company - it helps to have others who understand. You're going to do this.
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Old 12-04-2014, 03:56 PM
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Hey richomechanic- Welcome!!!

Congrats on Day-3. I think it's great to see that you've decided to take some action with your drinking. I think you'll find a lot of support in here, which should help you reach you goals.

Again, welcome and I look forward to seeing your around in here.


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Old 12-25-2014, 06:50 PM
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So I almost have December made dry! But I have cravings for the buzz and have had thoughts of planning a night of drinking, does someone have a magic trick to offer to kill the cravings? I'll start back at the gym tomorrow, eating right.
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Old 12-25-2014, 07:13 PM
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There's no magic tricks but there are some tips collected here

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-cravings.html

One other thing I'll suggest. You've been dry nearly a month - that's awesome but don't confuse abstinence with control - they are not the same thing.

You're doing well because you removed alcohol from your life - re-introduce it, and you risk ending up back at square one.

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Old 12-26-2014, 03:09 AM
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Well done on your sober time

Do you have a good recovery plan my friend ?
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Old 12-26-2014, 08:15 AM
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You can do this!! Keep pushing through!!
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Old 12-27-2014, 05:14 AM
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My recovery plan is to never drink again. The evenings are the worst cuz thats when I used to start her up a drinking. I reflect on the days in my early 20's when drinking was an on occasion and at times repulsive, way too much to accomplish.
Just speaking my mind, and thanks again for listening and replies. I'm doing better.
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When you have cravings or are facing triggers, don't forget to log-on to SR. SR is 24/7/365; there is always someone here who cares and who truly wantsnto see you succeed.

Keep us in the loop.
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Old 12-27-2014, 05:53 AM
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Glad you are doing better, Richomechanic .
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Old 12-27-2014, 05:57 AM
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Cravings do pass and thoughts do not have to be acted on. You're doing so well! Please do whatever it takes to stay strong, you won't regret not drinking but you will regret a relapse.
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Way to go Richo
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Old 12-27-2014, 11:10 AM
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Originally Posted by richomechanic View Post
Hi, I'm on day 3 of no drinking, I feel good and haven't been craving much yet. This isn't my first time to try stopping I've made it a year before, then several months, then decided I could handle a few drinks now and then. I now realize that I can't drink! I black out and have those feelings of guilt the next day, and I'm tired of feeling crappy. If I made it a year before then I can make it for life!
I agree! You can do it!
A year is amazing, I'm also on day 3
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