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Old 12-05-2014, 09:16 AM
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Old 12-05-2014, 09:37 AM
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I'm a genius manipulator.
At least you admit it.
I can relate.
I'm so looking forward to life without using/manipulating people!

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Old 12-05-2014, 10:08 AM
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So I'm back from the doctor. He was very nice and very supportive. He's prescribed me Disulfirm. I've taken it before but only for a week. lol.. Also he has contacted a support worker who I've seen before (shes a miracle worker when you tell her the truth) so all is well for now. Quiet Friday night in just for me.
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Old 12-05-2014, 10:26 AM
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That sort of Binge drinking is more indicative of alcoholism than drinking more frequently but with less fury and pace (a Liter of vodka in a few hours)

You sound like a younger female me.

Police cells, covered in blood...... That sort of thing happened regularly to me in my 20's

I drank on for 20 more years, believe me, it gets worse.

Keep up with the AA stuff
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Old 12-05-2014, 10:37 AM
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I'm 24. Yeah I have alot of anger. Im very nervous for my first meeting. And its at the same time as the Xfactor semi finals. hehe. Priorities and all that

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Old 12-05-2014, 03:06 PM
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Old 12-05-2014, 03:10 PM
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Loss of friends is a common occurrence in early recovery. Denial is a big part of alcoholism and often we have believed the people in our lives were friends, when in fact they were not.
Anna, you are so right. They were not our friends, but you know what? I was never a good friend to any of THEM either. I encouraged and perpetuated that party life. Ugh, so glad to be out of poisonous relationships - and glad I am no longer poisoning anyone else.

And congrats! Really like what you have to say!
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Old 12-05-2014, 04:09 PM
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Welcome, Kochanie

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Old 12-05-2014, 04:28 PM
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Pleased to meet you Kochanie - it's great to have you here.
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Old 12-05-2014, 04:35 PM
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Welcome! You're very brave, that's hard stuff to realize. Good for you.
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Old 12-05-2014, 06:17 PM
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I live in a small town, Nightlife is the biggest thing among my age group. You live for the weekend. In reality though, the people I had surrounded myself with didn't care about me in the way I thought they had. Where are they now that I have chosen to not drink? Nowhere to be seen. Its very lonely.
Welcome back Kochanie. Where are they now? Typing it doesn't express my thought really.

It's good to recognize this. It seems to be the same when you hit 50 too. Where are they now? Get sober, get to know yourself again and the friends you make while sober will be real friends.

Say hello in the morning.
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Old 12-06-2014, 12:53 PM
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Anna, you are so right. They were not our friends, but you know what? I was never a good friend to any of THEM either. I encouraged and perpetuated that party life. Ugh, so glad to be out of poisonous relationships - and glad I am no longer poisoning anyone else.

And congrats! Really like what you have to say!
I was never a good friend. I was either drunk or hungover, so I had no time for the good ones. Now the bridges are burnt. I've always been told I have a good insight into myself and others. I spot a wrong'un miles away. Not that that mattered. I'd chill with anyone so long as the wine was flowing. I know where I went wrong thats the main thing. It's time to put me and my health first. Just like all of you. You have all really made me feel welcome. I think I'l hang around for a bit. 7days! I'm loving it!

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