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Old 11-22-2014, 12:17 AM
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Welcome Shellshocked!
I lurked for a while also.
You'll find lots of support here!
Don't listen to that false sense of security
which tells you, in a couple days you can
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Old 11-22-2014, 03:40 AM
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Welcome, Shellshocked, good to have you with us.

That anger against your AV is good, I used to shout at mine, "No no no !"

Don't have to shout so much 42 days in, it's more of a "I told you to keep quiet".

Look forward to your future posts, always reach out if you need help.
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Old 11-23-2014, 09:03 PM
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42 days.... Amazing JanieJ. I want to be where you are. I can do 2 to 3 days easy.. but longer. Not so much
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Old 11-23-2014, 09:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Shellshocked444 View Post
42 days.... Amazing JanieJ. I want to be where you are. I can do 2 to 3 days easy.. but longer. Not so much
Good to see you again, Shellshocked. "I want to be where you are" is something I said about so many fine folks here on SR since my first day here and every day after for the last 8 months. It works. All googly-eyed, scared and uncertain at times. Many can relate and offer such great support for the journey. This is a new chapter for you. You are here and this is a great place to be.

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That anger against your AV is good, I used to shout at mine, "No no no !"

Don't have to shout so much 42 days in, it's more of a "I told you to keep quiet".
JanieJ, this just makes me laugh. Thanks.
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Old 11-23-2014, 09:33 PM
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My goodness. My Persian is lying next to me. So grateful.
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Old 11-23-2014, 09:38 PM
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Welcome, good luck, glad you're here!!
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Old 11-23-2014, 10:57 PM
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Welcome, Shellshocked--you're in the right place.
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Old 11-23-2014, 11:03 PM
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What a wonderful welcome. Thank you all so much. I have a beautiful Persian cat that I rescued. For the record, I have never been a cat person...wth?!
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Old 11-23-2014, 11:04 PM
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What a wonderful welcome again. Thank you all so much. I have a beautiful Persian cat that I rescued. For the record, I have never been a cat person...wth?!
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Old 11-23-2014, 11:07 PM
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Welcome to our forum, Shellshocked. Lots of help and experiences from others here for you.
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Old 11-23-2014, 11:16 PM
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Sorry for the duplicate post. And thanks again so much for the warm welcome.
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Old 11-24-2014, 06:11 AM
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Cuddle up with your kitty and be kind to yourself as you detox.

It will be so much better in a few days

We are glad you joined us and you can do this!
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Old 11-24-2014, 07:03 AM
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Welcome SS. This forum is so helpful.

I was in the same boat as you for a couple of years before I joined. But now that I have, it has completely changed the way I'm approaching my commitment to sobriety.

I'm sorry to hear about your mother. Alcohol seems to have a clever way of tricking us into believing it's not the problem, no matter how much it hurts us or how much we have seen it hurt others.

It sounds like being there for your son as he grows into a young man is very important to you, and that you believe saying no to alcohol for good will ensure that. This is as good a reason as any. I think if you keep your mind focused on that, you'll be able to flick any urge to drink away like a pesky mosquito.

Stay strong and focus on what's good in your life right now. And when in doubt, come here for support. One thing that I learned from joining SR is that I am never alone!
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Old 11-24-2014, 10:16 AM
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Welcome to the Forum!!
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Old 11-24-2014, 09:04 PM
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I have battled cancer (aged 37) , heart failure (44 years old...chemo wrecked my heart) and I am not 50 years old. 49 and holding fast. :-) I have been a fitness instructor for years but somehow I turned to alcohol because of my genes. Or that is what I believed.

ALL of you have been amazing and I have a *cat* at my side!!! WHO KNEW??
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Old 11-24-2014, 09:06 PM
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I somehow wished I lived a debauchery of a life but I never did. It would explain everything.
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Old 11-24-2014, 09:12 PM
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All of your wonderful welcomes made me tear up. Thank you! Lusher and Conquest, I sure hope this panic over my symptoms will be enough to keep me sober. I can't go back. My mother died from this, you'd think I'd know better. I remember what a horrible time that was in my life. My son will soon be a young adult making his way in the world and I definitely want to be around for that.

What a great group this is.

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My mother died from this too. I was a long time lurker as well until last week. So glad you posted. My heart and prayers are with you.
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Old 11-24-2014, 09:17 PM
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StillThought... my heart goes out to you. My Mom died at age 56. Thank you for your post. I feel I am not deserving.
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Old 11-24-2014, 09:28 PM
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Not deserving? Excuse me! You are absolutely deserving.

You deserve a wondrous life brimming with opportunity and beauty. You deserve peace and serenity; excitement and jubilation. You deserve the support of everyone here.

Anyone that values their longevity enough to seek the support of a group like this is deserving of it's help. You are no exception to this rule.

This place is greater than the sum of it's parts. You will find no shortage of support here; a lifeline in your downtrodden moments and a proud cohort of cheerleaders for your successes.

It is up to you to accept and embrace the fact that you are worth all of this, and more importantly, worth your recovery!
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Old 11-24-2014, 09:47 PM
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I love and have a weakness for little dogs. But my goodness my cat is purring loudly next to me. :-)
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