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Old 11-22-2014, 12:30 AM
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Old 11-22-2014, 04:53 PM
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You have my hug sweetie...things will get better...just stay focus
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Old 11-22-2014, 07:14 PM
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Hi Matilda.

I could hardly continue to visit SR with all the sadness, pain and regret were it not for the tremendous support people so willingly give to each other. I can't know your experience, but I do identify with your sadness, your grief.

There were plenty of healthy babies born before we accepted that drinking and smoking during pregnancy was not a good thing to do. And plenty of otherwise healthy women have miscarried or given birth to children with physical and psychological challenges.

I've been married, but never had children. I was always told I'd make a great father, but I think it's truer to say that I'll make a very good old man. My mother tells me that it seems that I was born to take care of other people's children.

We can't make everything right in each others' lives, but we can be there for each other when needed. You and many others have done a very good job with that.
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Old 11-22-2014, 07:34 PM
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Here is a hug coming all your way from China - and this one is a Kick ass Kung Fu hug.
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Old 11-22-2014, 08:59 PM
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That was so strong of u matilda to ask for help right away , right when the AV tried to hit you below the belt...AV is the devil. but u kicked its but. I only have 6 days but I know AV is patiently waiting. Thx for showing me what to do when it hits. I can't thx you enough for standing up and not drinking. I will think of u often.
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Old 11-22-2014, 09:09 PM
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Hugs and love, Matilda xx
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Old 11-22-2014, 09:39 PM
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No, it was not you.
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Old 11-23-2014, 12:26 AM
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My thoughts go out to you.

You can't know whether drinking contributed to the event some years ago, but if it makes you feel better I have a friend who has never touched alcohol in their life and still went through pregnancy issues similar to yours.

I think a lot of us blame past events on our drinking, so you are very much in similar company with that.
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