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Old 11-17-2014, 12:59 PM
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Just Day 3

Hello all! I know it's not very significant to many of you but today is Day 3 for me. I have been struggling for quite a while with a lot of Day 1's. I couldn't figure it out. Cravings etc. What I will say is that the threads on "famous/popular A/V pickup lines" has given me a new perspective (tool) to deal. I really like the idea of AVRT. It's gotten me through the last two days (I had some moments of weakness but realized it was by AV talking) but AVRT and realizing that my self-talk is my AV has helped. I've been a member of this forum since 2003.... yes I've been struggling a long time. However it is only now that I am becoming actively involved. Your stories and learning about the AV are helping me pull through. I know it's REALLY early on for me to be spouting this stuff but I'm pretty excited about it. I love the idea of not waking up feeling foggy, tired, and sick too! Good luck to all of you!
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Old 11-17-2014, 01:09 PM
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Thank you Charlie well done on day 3
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Old 11-17-2014, 01:11 PM
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3 days is fabulous! Well done!
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Old 11-17-2014, 01:15 PM
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Day 3 is great news!

And, good for you for figuring what the sneaky AV is up to.
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Old 11-17-2014, 03:03 PM
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Day 3 is fantastic!! Keep it going!!
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Old 11-17-2014, 03:08 PM
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Charlie, I'm so glad you have finally got through to day 3. I understand that is a massive thing for you, having struggled since 2003.

Be proud !
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Old 11-17-2014, 03:12 PM
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Hi Charlie,

I am also day three. Keep it up!!
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Old 11-17-2014, 04:00 PM
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Great Job Charlie! I am on day one, home, no booze and feeling really strong!!!
Will be on day 2 tomorrow!!!
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3 days is a wonderful accomplishment. I felt so much better after 3 days. You're doing great & we're proud of you Charlie.
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Old 11-17-2014, 04:35 PM
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My AV was just saying to me "just one... just a little while and you go home. Not a big deal." What a sneaky thing.. just one. I've had a lot of "just one's" but it NEVER is just one. Not listening. Congrats to the other newbies. Don't listen to that nasty AV. Nothing good comes from listening to it.
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Old 11-17-2014, 04:58 PM
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Yay Charlie! Day 3 is awesome...keep up the great work!
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Old 11-17-2014, 05:01 PM
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Three days is huge!!!!! Stay strong
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Old 11-17-2014, 05:15 PM
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Three days is great, charlie!

Waking up without a hangover is a great feeling, isn't it!?
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Old 11-17-2014, 05:34 PM
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Good job, Charlie! I had some AV today and felt so forlorn until I realized what was happening. So sneaky.
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Old 11-17-2014, 05:38 PM
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Wow. Something just finally clicked for you.

Excellent. Thanks for posting this, and congratulations.
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Old 11-17-2014, 05:41 PM
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I just have to realize when the thought comes to my mind "just for a little while" it's that crafty AV. It's my body saying.... c'mon.... give me a little alcohol.... the worst thing for me. I'll get through it. I don't even like the people at the local gin mill near me either. It smells, is dirty, and is full of miserable people. But somehow my AV tells me it's not that bad. It IS that bad. Alcohol is such a powerful thing. Glad I got this out. It silenced the AV for a few. See you guys tomorrow on Day 4!
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Old 11-17-2014, 05:51 PM
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You can't let a lion out of its cage a little bit at a time.
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Old 11-17-2014, 06:44 PM
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Nothing really clicked. Still a struggle but I have to recognize its my av talking and I have to tell it to go away or NO! Thanks for the support.

Don't really understand the lion thing though. ? But thanks
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Old 11-17-2014, 08:01 PM
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Bbllue: please don't take offense. I just never heard it. Going to bed. Good night to all!
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Great stuff Charlie

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