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Old 10-24-2014, 03:43 PM
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I've hit rock bottom. I've lost my job, my wonderful boyfriend, and I feel my life-all because of the bottle. I went to my first aa meeting yesterday. I feel so lost.
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Old 10-24-2014, 03:44 PM
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You took the first step to finding your way, I'm sorry so much has gone wrong for you recently. Hang in there.
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Old 10-24-2014, 03:45 PM
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keep going to meetings and maybe talk to some people there.

same thing happened to me.....3 years later, I have a life that is peaceful and I'm okay living in my own skin!
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Hang in there welcome to SR try to focus on getting through today/tonight

good luck really nice to meet you
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Old 10-24-2014, 03:46 PM
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Welcome to the Forum!!

Alcohol didn't do me any favours either, and that was the first thing to sort out to really make some changes in my life!!

You can do this!! SR is a great place for support!!
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Old 10-24-2014, 03:48 PM
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You can do this!

AA was a life savior for me.

Lots of great support here too.

It will all turn around if you do not drink. I PROMISE!!
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Old 10-24-2014, 03:52 PM
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Hey Needtochange1, welcome!

Sounds like you're going threw a lot. I think a good amount of people in here have stories of losses as well. I know I do. I also know how much it can suck.

This forum is a great resource. There's a lot of support here, and most of us have either experienced, or are experiencing much of what you're feeling at one point or another.

You're here, which is a great step forward and I look forward to seeing you in here more.
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Old 10-24-2014, 03:55 PM
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Welcome Needtochange. You are never alone - you have us.

I was drinking all day when I found SR. I was hopeless and alone, too. No one in my life understood what I was going through - but my friends here got me back on my feet and gave me strength. Please stay with us - we can help.
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Old 10-24-2014, 04:03 PM
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Hey need - welcome

In my experience if you're lost, keep walking forward...you'll find your way.
Sounds like your journey has already started

You're not alone here - it'll be ok

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Old 10-24-2014, 04:07 PM
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Welcome NeedToChange. I can relate to what you are going through. I lost my job, apartment, car, finances, and finally my girlfriend to alcohol. I was left with two suitcases of clothes and nothing else when I finally got help.

I know that feeling of despair and hopelessness you must be experiencing. It doesn't have to be permanent. If you want your life back, the booze must go. Alcohol has a different effect on people like us whereby it takes us over and pushes everything else out. We simply cannot co-exist with it.

PLenty of understanding people here if you need some guidance.
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Old 10-24-2014, 04:18 PM
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Welcome to the family. You can have a good life again if you stay sober and work on yourself. It takes time and effort but a sober life is its own reward.
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Welcome you are among people who understand ...
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Old 10-24-2014, 04:32 PM
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It's not the end of your life. But I hope it's the end of your drinking life. Welcome aboard!
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