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bronkonagurski 10-19-2014 07:15 PM

Suffering badly...
 
...posted here before, sadly nobody cares. I have no reason to continue on.

ru12 10-19-2014 07:17 PM

Hey buddy... I care. How can we help you?

Waterfalls2014 10-19-2014 07:17 PM

Hi, what's on your mind? We care.

Briar 10-19-2014 07:18 PM

Of course we care, what's going on?

Wastinglife 10-19-2014 07:19 PM

Are you struggling with alcohol/drugs currently? Plenty of us here to talk to. What eating at you?

clayton621 10-19-2014 07:19 PM

Certainly cares... whats going on?

Bailey3 10-19-2014 07:19 PM

We all care. Tell us what's happening?

RumHound 10-19-2014 07:28 PM

Heya, bronco. Sounds like you are in a tough time. What's going on?

courage2 10-19-2014 07:34 PM

What's going on, Bronco? People are here if you need help.

MariahGayle 10-19-2014 07:44 PM

I care Bronco....I'm sorry you are hurting.

margherita 10-19-2014 08:37 PM

Sorry you are suffering. What's wrong?? Everyone here would love to lend a helping hand and at least try to make you feel better.

Dee74 10-19-2014 08:50 PM

Hi Bronko

I re-read all your posts. like the rest of the people here I don't know much about you or why you feel you're not getting support here.

Maybe if you trust us a little and tell us a bit about your current problems we can help a little more?

D

pupkin 10-19-2014 08:50 PM

Bronko, very sorry that you're hurting. Most if not all of us have been there in our own way and empathize sincerely. I looked at your first thread in July/early August and am not sure what to say. We don't have any magic wands but as the others have said there are lots of open arms here and we'd love to share experiences or try to help in whatever way we can. What's happening?

1newcreation 10-19-2014 08:53 PM

I care bruh! Let it out but don't let it eat @ you

MythOfSisyphus 10-20-2014 02:04 AM

We're listening! What's going on? What has you so down?

JanieJ 10-20-2014 02:52 AM

Hi, welcome, we all care, will you talk to us?

Kevin78 10-20-2014 03:50 AM

All ears here. Good place for support if folk understand whats going on.

endlesspatience 10-20-2014 04:01 AM

Maybe you could just share one little bit of your problem to start with. We'll see what we can do or say in response.

Meraviglioso 10-20-2014 04:10 AM

Hi bronkonagurski, I am sorry you are feeling so down and unsupported. I know how that feels and it is miserable.
What I am about to say comes from a place of compassion and is not intended as a criticism at all.
I noticed your posts where you attempt to reach out for help are pretty vague and the attempts to draw you out are met with silence.
There are definitely times where we all need help and that is all we know. We don't know what to ask for or how to ask for it. But you are putting a lot of weight on others here to just assume what you need and provide it without you participating in this process very much.
How about trying a different way of engaging? Maybe you could be a little more specific even if you don't completely understand what you are feeling and are having a hard time articulating that.
Something like "I'm feeling so frustrated and alone and don't know what to do about it" gives us more information than "no one cares, over it"
Do you see what I mean? There are a lot of people here who want to help but you have got to participate too. Answer the questions people have asked you, even if your response is "I don't know" it shows an effort to engage. In short, help us help you.
If you don't feel comfortable posting out in the open (completely understandable by the way) you could find someone to whom you relate and send them a private message.
We are here when you are ready.

EJ43 10-20-2014 04:30 AM

Hey bronco! Let it out! We are here to help you!


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