How to get out of this one
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How to get out of this one
A couple months or so ago, I got a call from a man I dated 100 years ago. He moved to Austin to work at Dell. He wanted to get together with me here in Dallas (about 200 miles north of Austin). I was pretty loaded when I talked to him and said it would be great to see him, yeah come on up to Dallas, etc.
So he calls last night and asks if he could drive up this Thursday and spend the weekend AT MY HOUSE! Being sober when I took his call this time I was very hesitant. I said I was going out of town this weekend (not true)...it was the only thing I could think of. I barely remembered asking him to come see me.
So, he is going to call again... he will be persistent. I cannot believe he assumed he could stay with me. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but....
Dumb things you do and say when drunk!
So he calls last night and asks if he could drive up this Thursday and spend the weekend AT MY HOUSE! Being sober when I took his call this time I was very hesitant. I said I was going out of town this weekend (not true)...it was the only thing I could think of. I barely remembered asking him to come see me.
So, he is going to call again... he will be persistent. I cannot believe he assumed he could stay with me. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but....
Dumb things you do and say when drunk!
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Could you just level with him? "Look, I was really drunk when I talked to you originally. I hardly remember what I said. To tell you the truth, I'd just as soon not get together again. Please forgive me!"
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Yes, Anna, I thought the same thing! I guess I will have to be as bold as he is and tell him not to come up. I feel badly, but he can't just waltz in here like that and think he can stay with me.
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