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Old 09-25-2014, 08:53 AM
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Please send well wishes my way

I can't really, or i shouldn't really say whats going on but something bad happened last night, my wife is in the hospital ( possible charges), I lost my daughter and this is the worst possible thing that could possibly happen to my family and me.

I've said all I should say, but I am down and out today and this is an utter nitemare. If there was ever a reason why this habit is so insidious I am feeling it now. Please just send well wishes, I am holding it together and this is all i can and should say online Thank you kind friends in advance.
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Old 09-25-2014, 08:57 AM
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I am praying for you and your dear family, Jeremy.
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Old 09-25-2014, 08:58 AM
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oh TDG
sending prayers your way brother.
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Old 09-25-2014, 08:58 AM
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Sending well wishes to you and your family, Jeremy. SR is with you. I may be connecting the dots incorrectly (I sincerely hope so) but, if not, it may time to consider intensive professional help, Jeremy.
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Old 09-25-2014, 08:59 AM
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I'm not sure I understand what's going on, but I hope your wife will be okay. What do you mean you lost your daughter? Also, does possible charges mean you did something to your wife?
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Old 09-25-2014, 09:01 AM
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Yeah, I hope your wife is ok.
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Old 09-25-2014, 09:01 AM
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I did nothing to my wife, the authorities have removed my daughter.
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Old 09-25-2014, 09:01 AM
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Sending good vibes your way budy!

Be strong!

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Old 09-25-2014, 09:03 AM
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I am mostly keeping vague out of respect for my wife. I just needed kind words.
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Hoping things get better soon.
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Originally Posted by Thatdeliveryguy View Post
I did nothing to my wife, the authorities have removed my daughter.
I am grateful that I connected the dots incorrectly. That doesn't diminish your anguish; prayers continue for all of you.
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Old 09-25-2014, 09:09 AM
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Jeremy please seek professional help for the sake of you, your wife and your daughter. SR is useful but can only go so far. I will send prayers to you and your family.
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Old 09-25-2014, 09:12 AM
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Originally Posted by jdooner View Post
Jeremy please seek professional help for the sake of you, your wife and your daughter. SR is useful but can only go so far. I will send prayers to you and your family.
this.
We all know you have been giving 18983908329048% the last while TDG - but maybe it's time to let someone else help?
I pray that everything will work out for you and your family.
*BEAR HUG*
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Old 09-25-2014, 09:16 AM
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I was thinking the same thinking looking into rehab, going to go to AA today.
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Old 09-25-2014, 09:19 AM
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Yes, I agree. What can you do RIGHT NOW to stop this cycle?

Prayers coming your way!
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Old 09-25-2014, 09:21 AM
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God bless you bud. AA is a great idea and a good place to be to hear more kind words. Remember that most of us have to weather a pretty nasty winter before spring comes. The saying "this too shall pass" repeated over and over got me through some tough times. You can borrow it if you want to. Hang in there.
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Old 09-25-2014, 09:43 AM
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Jeremy, I hope you can find your way out of this.

I am sending prayers for you and your family.
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Old 09-25-2014, 10:10 AM
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Hi Jeremy.

Right now you are in crisis mode, as you should be. This brings out the best in some people, and I think you can be one of them but, again, you need to get the help you need in order to sort things out. The time for "thinking about" or "looking into" doing something has long passed. And, as others have suggested, posting on SR alone has never seemed to be enough for you.

What do you need to do to work things out as they stand, and what are you willing to do to accomplish that?

I'm powerless to do anything that can get you to take action on your own behalf and for the well-being of your wife and daughter. What happens next is up to you. It's time to take action.
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Old 09-25-2014, 10:13 AM
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Jeremy maybe rehab would be a sensible option

This is starting to spiral

hang in there J
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I wish safety first to you and your family. Please take action to get help. I haven't read all the posts but more is needed to intervene it seems to me. You can do this. You can!
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