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Old 09-19-2014, 02:45 AM
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I have been reading everyone's post on this site for over a month now and decided to do the same because I am in need of support. I have been having some health issues and yesterday I had an appointment with my doc. Apparently, my drinking and using made me have a heart condition. This is affecting my life because of the choices I have made but I can't stop myself from thinking that using or drinking would help me at least for today.
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Old 09-19-2014, 02:51 AM
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Welcome to the posting side of things.

I'm sorry about your heart condition. Drinking today would only make things worst. An hour or 2 of "relief" is not worth the guilt, shame, and additional health problems. Dealing with the fall outs from our Addiction is very hard, we understand. But at the end of the day, changing the present to increase our chances of a happy and healthy future is the only way to go.

Stay strong
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Old 09-19-2014, 02:53 AM
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Glad you are sharing your struggle....if you have been reading on this site you've probably read that drinking doesn't really have a way of making a situation better but actually worse. I got honest with my doc about my drinking and found it actually helped me stay sober to know if I drank it would make my condition worse....stay strong!
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Welcome to the Forum!!

Not many situations in life I found can be added to with alcohol, it usually makes things worse!!
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Old 09-19-2014, 03:11 AM
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Hi recovering maggy, welcome.

If you really want to stop you've come to the right place. I've had do much help and support from my friends here at SR, my second family.

Join us, don't put your health at risk. Speak to your doc. He will tell you of the effects of alcohol on our bodies and organs.
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Hi recovering maggy, welcome.

If you really want to stop you've come to the right place. I've had do much help and support from my friends here at SR, my second family.

Join us, don't put your health at risk. Speak to your doc. He will tell you of the effects of alcohol on our bodies and organs.
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Welcome Maggy! I also did alot of reading here before my first post. Keep readiing and feel free to post. The folks here are very supportive.
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Old 09-24-2014, 01:46 AM
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thank you everyone for taking the time to answer. Im trying to think of the positive that can come through this but it aint easy
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Old 09-24-2014, 02:09 AM
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Hi,

Glad you are sharing your everyone, i felt this helped me and through a lot of the forum it helped me calm down and realise that we can't keep doing what we are doing as there is only 1 way it will end.

I hope your heart problems get sorted and with time and healing your body and heart may repair itself.

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p.s welcome to the forum
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welcome to sr maggie
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Old 09-24-2014, 02:51 AM
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Glad to see you here--your health is so important!! I know it's scary to see how alcohol can affect your body, but your body wants to be in balance. I know the longer we stay off the booze, The more positive the outcome.

Good idea to be upfront with the doctor. I know I've lied most of the time to mine
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No it's not easy but I think support makes it much easier

Glad you found us Maggy - welcome

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Hi recoveringmaggy,

Welcome to SR
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Old 09-24-2014, 04:38 AM
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thank you everyone for taking the time
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Old 09-24-2014, 05:12 AM
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thank you everyone for taking the time to answer. Im trying to think of the positive that can come through this but it aint easy
welcome
it ain't easy....but it IS worth it.
Like Dee said- the support here will cushion the fall a little bit
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