What is more fun now that your sober?
DRIVING! Omg. I've always loved driving and it's soooo nice to drive with a clear head - no hangover, wonky-ness, etc. Or not driving at all because I was drunk. I was NEVER on the streets after I took a drink; I got realllly tired of relying on cabs and friends all the time, but was paranoid of driving drunk. It was SUCH a handicap, to be so dependent on others when all I had to do was - not drink!
The other day I was driving home from Barnes & Noble at around 9:30/10pm. It felt so - weird. I hadn't been out and sober AND driving at that hour in months!
So yes. That'd be top on my newbie sobriety list of fun things.
The other day I was driving home from Barnes & Noble at around 9:30/10pm. It felt so - weird. I hadn't been out and sober AND driving at that hour in months!
So yes. That'd be top on my newbie sobriety list of fun things.
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Reading is the big thing for me right now. I used to love reading and still do but I had less time for it when I was drinking... reading in bed before sleep is a much better use of time than passing out.
Basically everything, but what stands out is mornings, meals (actually enjoy the taste of them and less worried about the calories since I don't drink pointless alcoholic calories), sex (and that one surprised me ~ happily), my self respect
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I get such a thrill when I realize I am finding delight in simple things... when I am awed by something beautiful in nature or a warm wind on my face...when I share a genuine belly laugh with a friend...when I recognize I am allowing new things to enter my world....or as I enjoy getting closer to another human being naturally..without the forced, false and expedited trickery of alcoholic illusion.
...When I realize I am experiencing life authentically. I'm really, really doing it.
...When I realize I am experiencing life authentically. I'm really, really doing it.
I also second those who mentioned mornings. Over the last few weeks, I've picked up the habit of waking up an hour earlier than usual to relax and enjoy the morning.
Yeah my kids happy faces when I get home... I use to not care to notice and go straight for the booze to numb the day.... its what I think about when I think I need a drink...
The very first thing that made mornings better is that I didn't wake up with a sense of dread and shame. Then it was exciting when I realized I could drive to the store after 7pm. I read an article where it said depression can cause a problem with your eyes where you don't see contrast normally and everything looks flat and lifeless. When that finally lifted it was huge for me. The same thing that happened with my eyes must have happened with my other senses because all of a sudden I really enjoyed music and noticed soft touches like breezes.
The very first thing that made mornings better is that I didn't wake up with a sense of dread and shame. Then it was exciting when I realized I could drive to the store after 7pm. I read an article where it said depression can cause a problem with your eyes where you don't see contrast normally and everything looks flat and lifeless. When that finally lifted it was huge for me. The same thing that happened with my eyes must have happened with my other senses because all of a sudden I really enjoyed music and noticed soft touches like breezes.
That is how it felt to me too. Like I was remembering what was taken from me. I didn't even realized I lost it.
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