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If he has been snoring like that for 4 years, and he is the one that can sleep anywhere like a baby, I would make the couch up very nice for him and say honey, I need you to please sleep on the couch, as I need to sleep. I think it's hard not to go into a kindof rage when your sleep deprived and in early sobriety, so maybe take action, avert the situation by finding a solution yourself, instead of becoming so frustrated because he isn't taking any action. And buy him one of the snore guard things...handle it yourself would be my suggestion.
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nope, its true.... but i can't remember the last time i had a good nights sleep. so its no sleep on an uncomfortable sofa but with no snoring next to me, or a warthog sound affect in my ear all night but a 18" memory foam mattress..... ah decisions, decisions. lol
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Originally Posted by Low 
If he has been snoring like that for 4 years, and he is the one that can sleep anywhere like a baby, I would make the couch up very nice for him and say honey, I need you to please sleep on the couch, as I need to sleep. I think it's hard not to go into a kindof rage when your sleep deprived and in early sobriety, so maybe take action, avert the situation by finding a solution yourself, instead of becoming so frustrated because he isn't taking any action. And buy him one of the snore guard things...handle it yourself would be my suggestion.
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Originally Posted by Low
If he has been snoring like that for 4 years, and he is the one that can sleep anywhere like a baby, I would make the couch up very nice for him and say honey, I need you to please sleep on the couch, as I need to sleep. I think it's hard not to go into a kindof rage when your sleep deprived and in early sobriety, so maybe take action, avert the situation by finding a solution yourself, instead of becoming so frustrated because he isn't taking any action. And buy him one of the snore guard things...handle it yourself would be my suggestion.
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You didn't come here to talk about your bf or snoring
You mentioned you distracted yourself for 8 mins so your trying to stop have you been sober before
Or are you just trying to cut down
And let's keep it full 100 she ain't here cos of the bf
You mentioned you distracted yourself for 8 mins so your trying to stop have you been sober before
Or are you just trying to cut down
And let's keep it full 100 she ain't here cos of the bf
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Originally Posted by Hope2014
Glad you posted instead of drinking. I have a simple solution to this complex problem- get rid of the boyfriend! I didn't hear one positive thing he brings to your life. of course you want to drink
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Originally Posted by soberwolf
You didn't come here to talk about your bf or snoring
You mentioned you distracted yourself for 8 mins so your trying to stop have you been sober before
Or are you just trying to cut down
And let's keep it full 100 she ain't here cos of the bf
You mentioned you distracted yourself for 8 mins so your trying to stop have you been sober before
Or are you just trying to cut down
And let's keep it full 100 she ain't here cos of the bf
i've never given up drinking before no, and this is full on quit, not cutting down.
i've tried cutting down doesn't work
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Originally Posted by drunkinnumber2
what is a full 100?
i've never given up drinking before no, and this is full on quit, not cutting down.
i've tried cutting down doesn't work
i've never given up drinking before no, and this is full on quit, not cutting down.
i've tried cutting down doesn't work
You had me at this is full on quit .... I am pleased to meet you and if you ever need to chat rant lol or whatever we are all here
If your bf isn't supportive or understanding or things will be harder to solve with him around maybe ask for some support thru this or ask for some space so you can focus on your sobriety
Oh and nice to meet you I'm from London too
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Originally Posted by soberwolf
Basically let's keep this full 100 is keep it about the issue ie drinking problem/alcoholism I think your bf is getting slaughtered for his snoring poor bloke don't even know and you didnt come here for that
You had me at this is full on quit .... I am pleased to meet you and if you ever need to chat rant lol or whatever we are all here
If your bf isn't supportive or understanding or things will be harder to solve with him around maybe ask for some support thru this or ask for some space so you can focus on your sobriety
Oh and nice to meet you I'm from London too
You had me at this is full on quit .... I am pleased to meet you and if you ever need to chat rant lol or whatever we are all here
If your bf isn't supportive or understanding or things will be harder to solve with him around maybe ask for some support thru this or ask for some space so you can focus on your sobriety
Oh and nice to meet you I'm from London too
To be honest, i think most people if you read seem to be on his side not mine!
i wasn't ranting about him rather giving the whole thing context.
I suppose I just feel like when i need to feel someone out there will go out there way to look after me when i'm feeling fragile, it never happens.
Its just one of those times when i'd find myself reaching for the sauce, drink is always there for me, well, was. ha. I guess i've just come out of withdrawal, i need my rest and i'm being touchy. I don't know I've not really slept in a few days. I'm starting to go cross eyed! ha
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