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Old 08-05-2014, 08:55 PM
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Hi all 4 days sober and checking in!

Hi everyone!

I actually stumbled on this site a few nights ago and after a few days I wanted to come back and say reading everyone's stories really helped me out a lot. I sort of had an epiphany moment 4 days ago after hearing my mother has bowel cancer (early onset, caught in time and she's heading into surgery this month) it really hit me hard.

I'm 31, female, been drinking about one bottle of red a night for a few years now on and off and and I realized I'd just had enough. I hated the idea I was so dependent on my next night's booze I would seriously put it ahead of family. So I quit.

Going cold turkey was probably a risky move but I was very determined to follow it through. The first night wasn't so bad, just really alert and awake, bit of gas pain. Night two, pain in the sides and a little bit of heartburn, but last night (night three) was definitely the worst of it. Bad heart burn, pain around the ribcage, racing heart, I was ready to head to the ER for a heart attack but on the other side of it (day 4) I feel like a curtain is lifting and the pain has gone though I am sweating a lot.

Guessing its those toxins finding a way out. All in all I know I've been fairly lucky, my detoxing (thus far) has been easy compared to some but if there's anyone else out there scared to take the plunge - I just thought I'd share that there is hope. You can definitely get there.
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Old 08-05-2014, 08:58 PM
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Hi jc. You are through the worst of it. Don't look back. You can do this! Trailing right behind you on day two.
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Thanks wellvoice!

I'm hoping so! Good luck to you, too. You're getting through it, yourself. It definitely feels worth it on the other side.
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Congratulations on your decision jc. You will be much more help to your mother sober.
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Welcome JC,
You are on the right path. Good for you and congrats on Day 4 ��
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Congrats on day 4. I am on day 8. You should join the class of august
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Welcome to SR, jc1983. It is a very helpful forum, lots of people like ourselves.

I never thought I could live without alcohol but visiting here and reading many experiences and having a moan when I was struggling and I managed to get over a year sober. I feel if I can do this you can too.

Congratulations on day 4.
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Welcome, jc1983! Congrats on 4 days. You'll find tons of great support here. Glad you've joined us.
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Congrats on 4 days keep it up
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Welcome to the Forum!! Great job on Day 4!!
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Old 08-07-2014, 04:17 AM
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Hi JC1983,
Im a day behind you and in the same city!
I had irregular and fast heart beats on the third night too, tonight Im better but I am dreading the weekend...
Congrats on making a positive change in your life for you and your family.
Onwards and upwards from here!
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Hi and welcome jc. Reading as much as I could on sr helped me immensely too.

Glad you found us.

Stay strong.
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Congrats on day 4!!! I'm right behind you on day 3. Keep pushing through to day 5,6,etc! Rooting for you!
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Keep up the good work! Hope all goes well with your mom.
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