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Old 08-05-2014, 07:15 AM
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Smile I'm new here

I am new to sobriety and am a former extrovert learning to be social again. Soberly. Any other new members out there?
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Old 08-05-2014, 07:29 AM
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Welcome YOLO, there are lots of new and old members her alike. How can we help?
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Old 08-05-2014, 07:46 AM
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Welcome YOLO. I'm a new member (1 day), and received a really warm welcome from this group. I'm still learning my way around, but have already received a great deal of support from everyone here. Maybe search the forums for things you have questions about and/or jump in and post questions.

I have to admit.... I have been largely avoiding social situations where drinking is expected. I haven't really announced my sobriety to anyone, so I'm still relying on white lies to get me through: fake ulcer, losing weight, driving, etc... I will find the courage to come clean at some point..

Congratulations on your sobriety and welcome to the group. :-)
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Old 08-05-2014, 09:04 AM
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Welcome YOLO and Neil You've come to a site full of wisdom, support and understanding. It's good to have you with us
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Welcome to the Forum YOLO!! Great to have you here!!
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Old 08-05-2014, 06:55 PM
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Welcome YOLO - I'm new to sobriety too (1 day but have to start somewhere). Congrats on your decision and I wish you the best! I'm in there with ya
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Old 08-05-2014, 06:56 PM
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Good to meet you Yolo. I'm glad you found us.
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Old 08-05-2014, 07:01 PM
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Old 08-05-2014, 07:04 PM
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Greetings Yolo . It seems many new people are joining SR all the time. Glad to have you hear!
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Old 08-05-2014, 07:05 PM
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I'm new here, too. Glad to have you join, YOLO. I just look around the newcomer forums and sometimes feel moved to post something. Someone told me to speak up and I have to admit I'm a bit afraid of saying something that shows how new I am to sobriety. Then I realized that, of course I'm going to show that! My point? Just join in!
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Old 08-05-2014, 07:07 PM
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Hi. I'm new here too. 0 days sober? But hoping tomorrow is a new day.
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Old 08-05-2014, 07:07 PM
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Welcome! I have actually learned that I am better in social situations while sober rather than drinking.

It takes a little time

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Old 08-05-2014, 07:10 PM
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Old 08-05-2014, 07:14 PM
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Old 08-05-2014, 07:14 PM
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Welcome yolo! 20 days sober this time. First time I admitted that I am an alcoholic. The quote that gets me through the day is " if I am an alcoholic, then I can't drink. If I am not, then I don't need to.

Take it a day at a time. One bad days, take it ten minutes at a time.
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Old 08-05-2014, 07:26 PM
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Hey YOLO! I'm on Day 24. I used alcohol as a social lubricant and was pretty wary of trying to socialize sober. I was basically hiding out in my apartment the first two weeks, then I was forced to interact with others I wasn't so comfortable around. But I got through it sober, and it wasn't that bad. I know you can stop drinking and still be social. Might be weird at first, but that's like all new things. You can do it!
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Old 08-05-2014, 07:29 PM
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Day 3! Hi!
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Old 08-05-2014, 07:50 PM
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Hey YOLO! Day 3 here! When I've been sober in the past and been social I've noticed it gets let difficult. You get stronger.
It bothers me that alcohol is everywhere it seems. I just have to remind myself that it's easier for me to wait out their one or 2 drinks and they will be done. But it would be 4-7 for me and I'd still be drinking alone at home after the event is over! Hang in there.
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Old 08-05-2014, 07:55 PM
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Hello YOLO! I'm relatively new as well. Tomorrow will be 12 days sober!

Honestly, I've been avoiding social situations where drinking is involved. I think I'm too new in recovery to take on that task!

Eventually!!

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