soberjuly

If he has ever used Viagra with his wife, she would know, trust me. I had a BF use it once (didn't tell me), that stuff is nasty and unnatural. It's also very bad for the heart. He was a on-call ER doctor and I guess his schedule messed up things, I don't know.

27 cougar - I actually feel sorry (for you) that this was one of first posts I looked at this morning because I am OVER sensitive to cheating so you might need to filter out my posts a bit. I know I am paranoid about cheating because it is SO hurtful.

I know that is why I will sometimes check my husband's emails although he really is a good and faithful guy and I trust him.

It's like we never get over it.

27cougar

Yep, if this happened to my husband he would ask to try them out with me, not put them under the car seat.


Who keeps Viagra in their car? It is too weird

This...and this....resonate with me.

It means the world to me that I can share and get honest feedback here, I don't have anyone in the real world that I can share this with. My plan at this point is to stay calm, stay sober, think things through and yes honestly probably do some more snooping this weekend while he's gone LOL! Thank you thank you all.

PurpleKnight

Either way alcohol in no way will help or improve this situation . . . push on to Day 2 no matter what!!

ElleDee

I hope you flushed the pills. Again... don't drink, it won't help. That being said, his story smells fishy to me.

Dee74

Like someone said...separate the issues.
Whatever the pill thing is aboutM stay sober and focused on your recovery.

You're worth it

I'm not one for relationship advice but like Anna, I think you probably already know the answer to your question...?

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Mountainmanbob

that would be of most importance
getting day 2 under ones belt is a worthy early goal

Mountainman

27cougar

Thanks guys I'm committed. No drinking tonight! Still not sure how to address this though so I'm going to stick with the if you don't know what to do, just wait for now train.

Ready2beSober

Noone can really know for sure why he had them. I have heard of men having secret stashes of viagra and not telling their wife/gf because of course, no man wants to admit to having performance issues. I agree, it sounds really suspicious, and I'd definitely wonder. But only you know what your gut says. I can say, that everytime I've had the gut feeling I was being cheated on, I was right. By the time I started becoming suspicious and having that feeling, I already knew what the answer was. But drinking WONT help. Infact it will probably make it worse.. a drunk woman suspicious of being cheated on is nothing to play with! Lol
Good luck, I really hope he was being honest and its not what it looks like. Go spend some time with a friend or do something to get your mind off of it. Take a couple days, get a clear mind, all the answers will come to you.