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Old 07-25-2014, 12:29 PM
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New - ABF/Drug Addicted BF & Codependency

Hi all, thanks for having me here! It has been 3 weeks since I have heard from my alcoholic and drug-addicted BF. I moved to NYC to be with him and he has totally disappeared. I have started in Al-Anon, but need a forum on the side as well. Feel free to contact me if you have been in a similar situation, I could use some stories.
Thanks so much!
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Old 07-25-2014, 12:36 PM
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Welcome to the Forum BBTaco!!

I personally haven't been in a similar situation, but it does sound quite a bit much for him to expect you to stick around after being missing for 3 weeks, has he done this before?

You'll find loads of support here on SR, It's great to have you here!!
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Old 07-25-2014, 12:51 PM
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Thank you Purpleknight! Yes, he has done this, goes missing sometimes for a few months with no explanation, but never while we were living together. I think he knows I'll stick around, but I am trying to learn to distance myself and make better decisions. Thanks for the welcome!
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Old 07-25-2014, 12:53 PM
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Oh, my.... Praying that he returns safe.

It may be time to reassess your situation, though. I can't imagine wanting to go through months of worry on and off throughout your life.
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