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soberlife123 07-14-2014 08:56 PM

Eek
 
Ex fiancee left himself logged in on the laptop via email, I see he's told my ex future in laws we've broken up as they sent him a cryptic email....not sure what to say to that. No idea what or how much he told them.

:/ Hope these bridges can be unburned.

soberlife123 07-14-2014 09:04 PM

shouldn't have looked at it but went to check my ***** and his popped up couldn't help but see the first sentence as it previews....

ScottFromWI 07-14-2014 09:15 PM

While you can't change what you've done, Staying sober is your best bet to repair the damage of the past. It does take time though and not everything is always fixable.

Tonymblue 07-14-2014 09:22 PM

Staying sober is priority. Quitting drinking always helps relationships. Keep going forward.

PurpleKnight 07-15-2014 02:30 AM

Sobreity is the way forward, knuckle down and keep pushing through!! :)

trachemys 07-15-2014 04:09 AM

You can't un-burn burnt bridges. They have to be rebuilt. They'll only be strong and durable if you're sober for the rebuilding.

How are you feeling today?

alphaomega 07-15-2014 04:39 AM

Let this be the motivator you have been searching for to find your sobriety footing. Wishing you all the best. :)

ElleDee 07-15-2014 05:05 AM

What ScottfromWI said. Also, I'm in a similar circumstance and I KNOW that I'll never make it right with my partner until I show him that I can stay sober. I'm convinced it is the best thing to do right now (for me and you). Hang in there! Things will get better.

soberlife123 07-15-2014 05:37 AM

A bit better today. I'm scared he's only telling me if I stay sober there's a chance of us getting. Back together because he knows it's what I want to hear.

You know how addicts have the mentality of instant gratification? I just want it all fixed now lol

trachemys 07-15-2014 07:23 AM


Originally Posted by lawgirl82 (Post 4780744)
You know how addicts have the mentality of instant gratification? I just want it all fixed now lol

OK, repeat after me:

"I don't drink."

Repeat as necessary. Fixed. Now.


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