I couldn't even see it....
I couldn't even see it....
Yesterday we went to my sister and brother-in-laws (they live 90 minutes away) to celebrate my daughter's birthday and had a great time. What occurred to me this morning was that yesterday there was a 360° difference in my attitude/mood.
In the last 18 months as my dependence on alcohol escalated, I either found excuses not to go see them. Or, if I did go, I was very cranky and anxious. My family doesn't drink that much, maybe a beer or glass of wine. They are blessed with the ability to stop, unlike me. Because I had to drive home, I wouldn't drink and boy, did that drive me nuts. I was so consumed with missing time with my beloved vodka or wine that I couldn't even live in the moment and enjoy being with family. Not to mention it was exhausting, trying to hide my problem from them.
Yesterday was totally opposite experience. I was relaxed and happy to just enjoy the time together. It is amazing to me what a difference even a short time like 21 days can make. Under the spell of alcohol, I couldn't even see how it was on its way to taking over all of my life and who I am.
In the last 18 months as my dependence on alcohol escalated, I either found excuses not to go see them. Or, if I did go, I was very cranky and anxious. My family doesn't drink that much, maybe a beer or glass of wine. They are blessed with the ability to stop, unlike me. Because I had to drive home, I wouldn't drink and boy, did that drive me nuts. I was so consumed with missing time with my beloved vodka or wine that I couldn't even live in the moment and enjoy being with family. Not to mention it was exhausting, trying to hide my problem from them.
Yesterday was totally opposite experience. I was relaxed and happy to just enjoy the time together. It is amazing to me what a difference even a short time like 21 days can make. Under the spell of alcohol, I couldn't even see how it was on its way to taking over all of my life and who I am.
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That's awesome! I think creating new sober memories will help you be even more solid in your resolve.
People like us, when it's been a long time we tend to think that fun equals getting plastered or hight.
People like us, when it's been a long time we tend to think that fun equals getting plastered or hight.
Daretodream, I totally get it! Yesterday I experienced the same as you... Had a wonderful, fun, relaxing time with family without being cranky and ready to get away from them to spend time with a huge bottle of wine. Let's keep it up!
Great post. I, too, was surprised at how my life was revolving around alcohol - even when I wasn't drinking. Something I did not discover until I stopped.
A great mile marker on the road to freedom.
A great mile marker on the road to freedom.
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